Having a problem with sensitivity I need to find a provider with a tiny or tight hoochie.  Is there a nice way to ask?

...strangling your cock w/your monster grip...the poor little fucker can't breathe.

Don't whack your willy for a month before you see a provider...she'll be plenty tight then.

Oh, and to answer your question, no, there's not a polite way to ask that question goof ball.

Was that a polite answer?

Sensitivity..My Opinion only

I will handle this with a bit of sensitivity as well as professionally....Just because I feel, we will all have some issues at one point or another in life.
First of all with the sensitivity issue; You need to let the gal know you have it from the beginning. Second  be direct and let her know you have this issue (not a problem for most who are used to dealing with it). Also you may want to request a cock ring and/or tantric. And if you are taking high blood pressure medications or anything else that may inhibit you from being able to function the way you want to ...then  just communicate that before you see her. There's also Greek as a last resort (still fun lol). Just my 2 cents worth...Hugs always JoJo

Most of the time, the cover is the issue.  Perhaps you have been subjected to the cheaper brands that are so thick it is impossible to feel anything.  Maybe switch things up and ask your companion to try out the female condoms, they offer a much different feeling.  And 99% of all your sexual control comes from your brain, your brain might be in shock and love the new sensation.

Good luck


Kisses

Elle Vegas

Once I stopped lmao over Gator Jimmy's response, I was thinking the female condom might do you some good. There is no way to ask before hand. You either need to repeat with a willing provider, or find a girl thru research and back channeling that routinely carries female condoms. Elle is correct, a lot of it is mental. As a newbie it took me a good 6 months to be able to finish in a cover.  You'd be amazed how your body reacts once you learn to relax and be comfortable. So, keep you hands of your pecker and relax...it will all get better in time.  

and then you stay with that one.....for the rest of your life.....))

You could ask her if she's had kids. Some working girls even state in their ads up front that they have never had children just to emphasize that they are tight "inside".

That's true, but what you're stating is more the exception than the rule. I was making a statement in general.

Educate yourself:

Although there is wide anatomical variation, the length of the unaroused vagina of a woman of child-bearing age is approximately 6 to 7.5 cm (2.5 to 3 in) across the anterior wall (front), and 9 cm (3.5 in) long across the posterior wall (rear).[6] During sexual arousal the vagina expands in both length and width.[7] Its elasticity allows it to stretch during sexual intercourse and during birth to offspring.[8] The vagina connects the superficial vulva to the cervix of the deep uterus.

hobbyist friend who is well endowed always says to us who bemoan following him after he's seen a provider, he responds:

"Pussy snaps back!"

I think that's what Zsa_Zsa_TaTas was trying to explain....that's it in a nutshell!

I'm sure that's what some working girls would like to believe. More power to them.

My personal research, based on being with many women who have delivered wonderful children into this world, is that experience has zero bearing on the firmness or grip of their vaginal cavity. I may publish a paper on this at some point....but believe further research is required for accurate, statistical analysis.

Perhaps if you feel otherwise, it could be due to a personal lack of endowment down below.
Nothing to be ashamed of really. Many males who lack length or girth tend to find themselves in a state of denial that causes them to search out, and blame, other factors.....totally discounting simple reality.
These factors could be the woman bearing children (as you have done) or above "average" sexual activity (the myth that certain parts are "worn out"). Obviously neither thoughts are based on fact or have any foothold in truth....but it's the denial of one's own "shortcomings" that blocks logical thought and reasoning.
So the bottom line is that it's ok that you think the way you do...just realizing where it's coming from is the first step towards personal growth. By that I mean intellectual growth.....as there's not really much that can be done about the other small thing......but you can always expand your thinking and understanding.

I'm sure that's what some clients would like to believe. More power to them.

Hopefully you can make use of the provided link and discover some insight that could lead the way to an epiphany and the peace it can provide.

Multiple personalities and passive-aggressive behavior can be overcome. I think you have it in you to make that journey.

Happy travels.

If you truly want to help others, you should learn not to live by the attitude of "Do as I say, not as I do".

Also, short leashes and chokers are ineffective. Ha.