Please respond with PM or post a public reply. I'm thinking beginning or middle of November. I will host if there's enough response. If and when a date gets set, I will then put it on the M&G board.

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That's exactly what you will get! [email protected]

It's a lot of work and not as easy as it may look. I'm not sure how many people would attend if you hosted since you have hot been on the boards very long. You would be better off to find a well established hobbiest or provider to host the event and you could maybe co-host with them.

You may want to talk to some of the people who have hosted M&G's and ask them for some pointers on screening because that is a MUST for a M&G.

First off...there *should* be a LOT of interest since Orlando (centrally located) hasn't had one in quite a while. The town is definitely due.

It's also correct that these things are an absolute bitch to host. I mean a long-term absolute pain in the ass that takes up a lot of your time. Don't enter into it lightly.
Another good point is your rep. Time on the board doesn't necessarily mean everything. Hell...I co-hosted my first M&G only 6 months into this thing. In my favor, I did have a board presence and a very well established co-host which made the difference. Credibility means everything....*especially* after the disaster in NY where a supposed respected host lost his GD mind and allowed a reporter to attend. If you don't know about that...time to do your homework.

Orlando has had many successful M&Gs. The problem is that it's always been the same group (in different mixes) that have pulled it off. Without Sindie, Mackenzie Rae, GatorJimmy, and myself....there hasn't been anyone taking the reins. We've pulled off some great parties....but it's time for others to step up after all these years.

It's not that it's impossible....but you need to know what you're in for. You also need to understand that people are putting their trust in you and therefore will judge you by your history. Having reviews is great....but just reviews of BackPage tootsies doesn't carry as much weight as being involved with established people. To pull this off...you would need a very well established co-host.

Not trying to be a dream-stealer.....but just being honest and saying things that some people won't. Like always

Just sayin'
DD

I'm interested. I do agree that there should be a co host who has hosted one before.
I'm still relatively new to the hobby, so this would be an event I'd like t attend.

I am just scouting for interest and will play host only if necessary but intend to co-host for a better known person. A new email acct has been set up for inquiries [email protected]

 Thanks for suggestions and advise.

Hopefully my many reviews of "backpage tootsies" will simply show some skills as a scout. Please don't confuse that as my total hobby experience. I believe it shows a little more street smarts than the average bear. These public comments are good though to establish concerns that will be addressed.

Every lady has to get her first review from someone willing to take a chance. Personally, I stick to the well reviewed ladies since there is alot less risk and research involved and I know exactly what to expect. To each their own though ... if someone doesn't do it guys like me will run out of new ladies to see.

I asked a few guys to help co host an Orlando Mixer before the year is up.
I feel it's been a while and we are about due to have a fantastic party in Central Florida. Do you?

As for my experience, I've co hosted the very 1st mixer in CT which turned into a very successful and on going gatherings. I just couldn't continue due to my private live and the locations in which they were held.
I have 5 years experience on this board and I know with my co hosts help I can pull off a fantastic evening.

I asked a few gentlemen if they wanted to co host with me, S64 stepped up to the plate. If anyone else would like to be a co host please don't hesitate to offer up your help. The more help the merrier.

Ater all this is our board and wouldn't we all like to have a great time and meat new friends and catch up with old friends??

I assure you this mixer with be a party to remember. Everyone will be screened throughly and you will be in a safe and secure  place.

One big question would be what's the best time for everyone to attend???

Wednesday nights are great, this way the hot touring ladies who attend still have a few days after to meet up close and personal with their new friends the made.

I was 1st thinking in November. But some say its just to close to the holidays.
So what about the beginning of December, after the new year??


Id like to hear what you ladies and gents think?



Gabby xox





-- Modified on 10/3/2012 10:19:51 AM

Good on you for thinking about Hosting a M&G in Orlando. It's been a while and they are due.
You have received quite a few good comments/suggestions from many people here.

I'll just add my $.02 worth for what it's worth.

1. Hosting a M&G is not as easy as many think. You just don't throw something together. It takes a lot of careful planning and execution to make everything come together.
2. Get someone who has Hosted before to Co-Host with you. There are many small minute things that come up that an inexperienced person will forget or miss that need to be addressed.
3. First, of all the people who tell you they would be interested in attending a M&G, count on at least 25-30% who won't end up coming or even responding.
Once you have sent out invitations, of the people who RSVP they WILL be there, count on at least 15%-20% won't show up at the party, life and family do sometimes get in the way, after all.
Sadly, these are historical and accurate statistics from several years of Hosting.
4. Be VERY security aware. The safety and security of your guests is your primary concern. They need to know, and be assured that you are looking out for them and their safety.
5. Do not go into this thinking you are going to "make money". You probably won't, and as a matter of fact, you should expect to have to cover any shortfalls yourself. That's part of the deal you make with the Devil when you decide to do this.
6. Keep it simple. You are learning how to do this. Don't expect to hit a home run your first time out. Plan on a great turnout, but don't be surprised, or upset, if it doesn't quite workout as you had hoped.
For example, plan on 60 to show up, but don't be upset, or surprised, when, say, only 35 come. It happens and you need to be aware.
But understand, if everyone who does show up has a good time and is happy, no matter how many were there, the party is a success.
7. Screen ALL invitees extensively. Know who is coming and who they are.

Well, I got a bit carried away, but you get the jist of it.
I speak from experience, so you can take this information to the bank.
With all the pitfalls and bumps I have encountered, I still love Hosting the Tampa Soiree' and will continue to do so as long as there is an interest.

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you will have a great event.

I read all I could find about the recent Tampa party, and gleaned great advice from it, especially the follow up questionnaire. ALL the good advice is appreciated and will be a factor in setting up the party.

Holiday, December seems even worse.
Am I wrong?

And in November there is a meet and greet in South Florida.
And I wanted to add that Orlando is very much a convention based town. No conventions no visitors. That's why all the ladies there need to tour and most ladies only tour there. When is convention time?  that would be the best.  

Just saying.



Kisses

Elle

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-- Modified on 10/3/2012 10:47:33 AM

Hosting/Co-hosting parties takes a HUGE amount of time. Just be prepared ahead of time and the party should be a grand one!!

When Sindie and I had our party and then the other party I helped co-host...many many hours were spent from finding the right place, to the menu, to screening!!! However both were a huge success & I don't mean financially...that is for sure.. However, I grew up in a family where parties were a huge part of my life..hence I love to party!!

I asked around last year and actually had someone who wanted to help me out but he backed out in the beginning stages so that was a wash.

It is critical to find a co-host that has a good rep amongst not only the gents but the ladies as well-as well as a clean rep on this board. I have been around for almost 7 yrs. and have seen those who are in their own little click, some who like to do nothing but be negative on and off the board, those who are/were banned or delisted for stirring up trouble...just to name a few..just be careful..

Finding a location is critical to the safety of all involved and you can't post a date without setting a location in stone.  I actually found a great location but hence, the party never got started. As I mentioned in my pm, November is too close..Trust me that even though there might only be one holiday in November it is not enough time to plan a party and put everything into motion.  So it's not just a holiday issue.

Anyway,  I would be glad to assist you and help guide you if you desire.  Ask around...especially DD and GatorJimmy for reviews on the parties that I assisted in.  However, doing this in the next month is just impossible..

I hope you will take all the words of knowledge and experience from those of us who assisted in the parties and go for it...I would love to see a local party..

Makenzie Rae

Sensuality64 and I  thank you all for your input.
We have been speaking to a few people who have and had put on mixers in the past and with their help and the hard work of both of us this event will be an absolute fantastic time.

The location will be secure and safe and the screening will be not taken lightly. ( thank goodness for my assistant)

I can't wait to see this party grow to be one of Orlando's  premier parties that will be talked about for a long time after.


Gabby xoxo



-- Modified on 10/3/2012 1:27:59 PM

... in addition to the gentleman host the party would that much more successful. I've attended M&G's across the country from NYC to Phoenix and having a hostess help plan and screen seems to add something to the event. Many times gentleman attend *just* to meet the hostess so that helps with attendance follow through on the hobbyist side. Our sisters in the business seem to like a woman's touch as well.

I think Wednesdays are a great day for the very reason you mentioned.

I think that any date chosen should be far enough down the road that ladies who already have travel plans in place can plan around the Central Florida event. Cross promoting to local areas and perhaps creating a "regional" event would be beneficial based on what Sexi Toni said about there being so many M&G's back to back, on top of each other etc. Not only do I think more people would attend (guys would travel to an event like this with enough notice too) but a regional TER party would be one not to be missed kick ass event. Soooo - with that said We are pretty much in the holiday season already and Tampa just had a party. What if we looked to January around the Martin Luther King holiday. People usually take the first couple of weeks in January to relax, stay in and take it slow after the holidays. Mid-month around MLK people start to go out again.

Cheers!! Love Laney

Laney you are always such a bright spot on this board, thank you.


Gabby xoxo

Since we know that Sensuality and Cinnamon have stepped up to the long vacant plate.......whadda say we give them a chance?

It's been less than 24 hours since the first post went up....and there's emails and PMs flying all over this place like monkeys in the Wizard of Oz.
Really?!? Why?
Is it because you're upset someone might get the attention you think you deserve?
Is it because you have an ax to grind and want to create drama?

Honestly......what the fuck is wrong with some of you people?
Tampa has parties. South Florida has parties. They all go down easy, fun, and have positive results.
Talk about a party in Orlando and the freaks come out.
All this backchannel chickenshit bullshit about 'ask her about him', 'he'll tell you about her', 'ask so and so'.
You're all adults....right?
How about acting like it.
How about not proclaiming over and over and over again how you "hate drama"......then turn right around and do nothing other than create drama behind the scenes.

It's really not that complicated.
Two people want to host a party. I don't see any of you other assjacks stepping up.
So why don't we give them a chance....and support them in an effort we'll all benefit from and enjoy?

If you don't like them....or the idea of a party....then it's simple........................don't go.
But.....I don't need an acronym to say that at that point...you should shut the fuck up and not create bullshit that doesn't need to exist.

They stepped up. Give them a chance. Deal with it.

Just sayin'
DD

I tried to give you a hundred "likes" but I'm just a lowly worker bee so they only give me one.
But you get it.

Bravo!

I would love to see another Orlando M&G. It's been awhile since the last one. Even though I may not be in town any longer, I would love to attend if I'm in town.

It will be a lot of work for them and I'm glad that the OP found someone good to work on this with. I hope it works out well and I'll be of whatever assistance I may be able to lend.

Anything you need guys...let me know..im going to be there   anyways   so I can help.....i love you..and stay cool.......

-- Modified on 10/4/2012 12:10:58 AM

to the 2012 Orlando party co-hosts.

Have we forgotten about Mckenzie and the drama she's caused in the past? This post is nothing merely than a cry of jealousy.  Just as Deago said below, and I can't believe I am agreeing with him this time. Let the two have a meet & great and get over yourself. It's about time someone has stepped up to the plate and taking the task on.

Lex