Damn the torpedoes, I can worry about my own security. If I get to where my balls are so small that I depend on a lady that I want to have a sexual relationship with to insure my security, listen for a loud "BANG". I'll shoot myself right in the head.
The same hormone that drives me to want you, also makes me a prideful and arrogant SOB. Read about it in my reviews if you want, I've been robbed at a "home" that was no more than a run down trailer. So the danger exists, no doubt, and that danger isn't for the weak. I've also read of a pimp robbing guys at a hotel, so I think the quality and reputation of the lady is what counts the most, if I want to avoid danger.
That being said....I would see you in a box, I would see you in your socks, I would see you here or there, I want to see you anywhere. I am stupid for you my dear ma'am, though I am not Sam I Am.
(obviously plagiarized from the great Dr. Seuss)
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And no I didn't say that I like to see Homos naked lol!
But seriously, I am a very private person and discreet. As everybody should be in this industry. It only takes one rotten apple to spoil the whole bunch.
I make my home at any 4 star hotel just fine ;0)
That is just my preference.
Sweet french kisses
Your Angel
Elle Vegas
IF I were single I'd think about it. Depended on type of home (condo, SFR etc) and neighbors. Would also depend on the lady. How well I knew here, how much I trusted her etc. My ATF I'd invite into my home all day long and not think twice about it. Good thread. Again.
From what I have read previously, the general consensus is not to have a provider come to your home unless you have seen her several times before. If you don't get along, or she has a driver, that's 1 or 2 strangers that know where you live. Do you want that?
Secondly, if the guy has an SO, it's even worse. Again, from what I have read, his SO will somehow find out that there was another woman in her home, regardless of how careful he is. Are guys willing to take that chance? I wouldn't be.
I'm single, but do not own my home, I pay rent to my roomie/landlord. He knows I hobby, but has told me that I can't bring a provider into the house, and I will respect that. I have too good of a deal to mess it up.
If I were living on my own, I would probably have providers come to me, but only after I had seen them a few times.
Swim
In my LTR with my lady friend, she came to my home every week for over 2 years. We had it down to a science and after a while it was our place of choice.
The only problem is now that it has been over for a while, I still see her in all her favorite places.
My ATF and I have a condo together. I guess we do both ! Lol
having a provider at my home after I know her. I would not let a driver sit in my drive way but I don't go for those kind of providers any way. No way would I do this if I was married or my gf lived w me. The risk/reward just isn't in your favor in that situation.
I have no problem with this at all if I have been with the provider and we both are comfortable with each other. I am a single bachelor and have had providers to my place before. I just want to make sure, for their sake, that they are comfortable here. The only thing I ever ask them is to not dress too provocatively as I do not want to draw attention. The only problem is my walls are not exactly sound proof so sometimes we have to curtail our moaning and groaning a bit....lol....but this really isn't a problem. In a nutshell, I'm all for it if the provider is discreet and comfortable with it also.
As a batchelor now that I am getting old and it is getting cold in the northeast. I have plenty of firewood, a huge reef aquarium and a California King Size bed that comfortably sleeps me and three girls, and that is just my bedroom. When I was married I always dreamed about having a batchelor pad. It took 40 years but dreams do come true.
If the neighbors start to gossip about what is going on, I will proudly plead the 5th.
Some type of trust must be established between a provider and the client.
From both screening and a common sense perspective. As much as we reputable ladies try to weed out the crazies, it is also the gents job to do the same. Natural hobby boundaries must be established prior to allowing someone into your personal space.
There are some that exhibit lack of discretion from start of contact. Those are major warning signs that these individuals don't take rejection well. A danger to us all in the hobby. Just my honest opinion.
Its just a bad idea, even if not married. And while the trust factor is a huge issue with a provider to begin with, you never know whoI she might be connected with behind the scenes or whether she has an ex-client stalker that can cause you trouble. And many providers have deep financial issues which can lead to them doing desperate things such as blackmail or burglary (generally by a bf).
