Over the many years that I have been  dabbling about in this hobby, I have come across some things that really piss me off an I have called people out on this board in the past for saying and/or doing some stupid crap. Now, I am asking for your opinions here- let me explain.

What a rough life you have, go spend a day in the ER at Jackson Memorial to get a perspective on how you sound like a whiny bitch.

They are looking to be in your mind when the little one wants sex.

Seriously... if you want to convince guys of how sought after you are, the absolute LAST thing to do is beg for business be that in a 'pick me' post or random spam... it is considered SPAM if no one asked for that PM. If a guy posts an ISO, totally different.

I would NEVER text a gent randomly and I only contact those who gave me specific permission to do so when I am in their area - and then it is an email

Yes Pick me response to every post whether they fit the description is annoying and my further denigrate what standing they already have.  No disagreement there.

I AGREE 100%
 

Ok, first off, I completely understand being upset by a provider texting or calling you without warning or even permission. To me, that's basically an invasion of privacy since she has no way of knowing whether or not she's interrupting your personal life by doing so.  I absolutely get that and I think you'd be well within your rights to kindly let the provider know that you'd prefer not to be contacted.  

any rights..
 Plus  i think he just do not like women.. if he would .. - it is dreams of all men to have choice and be in harem at list in fantasy ..
 No fantasy and  bitter character .. soon there be no any woman around. ..

returning to my area.  It gives me time to not schedule anyone else if I want to see the returning provider.  Unsolicited begging, that I am not a fan of.  If she's not getting the amount of clients she wants, something is wrong with her service, IMHO.  There is a reason why guys are not calling her.  If I have not seen her previously, why does she think I would want to see her now?

I don't see the harm in pms through TER. I've received them unsolicited and am not troubled.

Telling a former client who asked that you let him know when you were back in town that you are going to be is one thing... spamming for business when the guy does not want to see you is another. That is what the OP is referring to. I know this because he messaged me about this very thread lol.

Funny, when I shop at various stores online it annoys the living shit out of me when they SPAM me to beg for my business again. I know where the store is located, know the site and can shop there when I choose to, not when they want me to because it's a slow month. I can say the same for a hair salon, dermatologist or any business I choose to spend money with.  If they are doing such things, don't get pissed when the guy or gal asks for a discount... I know I sure as hell would if someone kept bothering me to get my money all the time... unsolicited.

No need to spam people's email or send unsolicited texts that can end up been seen by the significant other.

Could make a similar hate list about things us guys do and it would be three times as long.  

I was really responding to being annoyed by providers that you HAVEN'T seen messaging you.  You're right, if you've already seen a client and he's chosen not to rebook, it's probably not going to help business or your relationship if you start spamming his inbox. Messaging potential, future clients seems more like sending a random flier in the mail than ending up on some mailing list for a company you've purchased from in the past.

I can relate!!!! LOL!!!

Wow- I must be sexist & hate women, huh? According to that logic, I would be okay if a TV/TS sent me an unsolicited solicitation because that would be a guy & you are saying I am sexist. Also, I hate women? Now, that's a leap & I am not sure how you got there. Hate is such a strong word- there might be 2 or 3 people in this world that I truly hate & none of them are women. Interesting. I do have pet peeves & things that piss me off- right at the top of the list are ignorant morons who speak without really thinking about what they are saying. And you know what? Not only women do it- men do it too- about half of the time. Take the time & read some posts on this board- every so often when there is not an ISO post, there is usually a guy making some kind of ignorant moronic comment. Maybe you would like to be a part of his harem.

of course with Blah Blah Blue it doesn't seem to make much difference how long she thinks about it before posting, she still rarely say anything that makes any sense. lol

I like it when providers text me to let me know they are available.  If I am not interested, I reply "no thanks" in a nice way.

I guess you are single man or VERY independent: But just imagine

If you received  text and you are with your wife?
 How you would explain THAT

This should never ever be a problem for anyone.  You should have a separate burn phone and unconnected email that you use for hobby purposes only.  The phone should only be turned on when you are trying to make a date.  Once you set these things up you really will not give two hoots who texts you.  Ignore them or respond to them at your preference.

Dude, you ARE aware you can block numbers, ignore users, calm the fuck down, all that good stuff, right? Riiiiight??  

Is this really what you've stooped too? Picking on a girl who's trying to participate even though english isn't her first language? You're stalking her the same way you've done others, getting called out about it like on other boards, and becoming nastier by the minute. For some reason, from long ago, I remember a funnier, wiser, Gambler.