You mean like nylons? Garter belt or panty hose?  It's a little unusual, I'll give you that, but I would've made the request up front instead of after she already agreed to see you. Some other providers might not think it's so unusual, keep trying.

Stockings do feel sexy!

Maybe you should have mentioned that you enjoy wearing stockings during initial contact. This would eliminate a last minute cancellation.

Although gentlemen with this particular request isn't exactly common, it isn't unheard of. I've had a couple of gentlemen wear stockings, lingerie...hell, I even stopped by and picked up a pair of panties for one gentleman prior to our date!

Well, you do have some kinks, I give you that

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This one you have to plan ahead on.

I have met men who like to wear a whole lot more than a pair of stockings. Just because a man has a fetish to wear a particular type of clothing doesn't take away from their sexual orientation.

I wear black stockings with many gentlemen who have told me how wonderful it feels next to their skin. I have also made them take a stocking off of me and tied their cock up with it.

Either way this is a wardrobe for you to be  enticed with and the person you want to be with is a caring, understanding, openminded professional women. I do hope you find someone who will make you feel comfortable with what turns you on.

Kisses Haley

that you should have mentioned this prior to going through all the screening process.  Now grant you, most ladies will not even talk to you if you are talking about sex acts.  However, with you this is not the case as it's just something you like to wear.

I feel if you mentioned this ahead of time, it would have saved alot of grief on both parts. This way she would have not wasted either of your time. I am sure the provider is not happy she canceled but obviously she was very uncomfortable. However, once she told you she was cancelling because of that you could have stated that you still wanted her to come and you would not wear them.  Then again, that would have been your choice at that time.

Hope you are able to find what interests you...

To answer your question about "what is so freaky..." is to say that "freaky" is in the eye of the beholder. What works for you might not work for someone else, and so on.

Respect, however, is also in the eye of the beholder. As has been mentioned in earlier responses, letting the provider know in advance would have been the proper thing to do. If the provider "already agreed to meet" you...that means she already spent time on screening, perhaps arranging her schedule, and maybe even travelling to her incall or your location. This is time that she will not be compensated for. Lost time equals lost money.

Having enough respect for this provider to let her know your particular wishes in advance would have avoided much unnecessary hassle and drama.
You would have known far in advance whether or not she would agree, her time would not be wasted, your time would not be wasted, and you would have no need to bring this up in public...and deal with the numerous PMs I'm sure you'll receive from people who can't stand not knowing who it was.
Will you be respectful of the provider in private and keep it to yourself? Only you can answer that.

Your situation, while unfortunate, could have been avoided by using a little better judgement.
Hopefully you will be treated better in the future, as you pursue your desires, than you treated the lady in this case...because I doubt we would have seen a post from her talking about some guy that hit her with a surprise at the last minute.

Just sayin'

I have been posting to keep up appearances but not seeing anyone. This gentleman sent me an e-mail that I had not read till earlier today once I knew my dog was going to be alright.

I'm not a hotel girl so to speak but he would have had no way of knowing that. There was no mention of stockings in the e-mail and his e-mail was that of a gentlemen.I have not called anyone who left messages for me.

I am sorry if I was a cause of any problem

Kisses Haley