Question for both the ladies and the gents:

Do you like to talk about sex/desires/fantasies before the action starts, or do you prefer to just let it unfold after greeting/into/brief chat?

I don't mean a discussion about laying out a blow/by/blow gameplan for the session, so to speak. What I'm referencing is a discussion about the attraction/allure of the sex yet to unfold.

I love sitting with a lady before an encounter as we hold hands and slowly increase our physical contact, touching, etc.  "When I look at your pictures, all I can think about is eating your pussy." And, "Your reviews indicate that you are a tremendous cocksucker. Thinking about that got me really hard on my way to meet you." And, "your lips (top set) are fuller than I imagined. I can't wait to feel them enveloping my cock." And, "Your ass looks so round and sexy. I can't wait to stick my tongue there and taste you."(assuming she likes that)  

I find the mental component so special in these moments. To be clear, I am talking about conversations that occur after entering the room, dropping the donation, washing/showering, etc.

Ladies--does this turn you on? I know that sometimes it's best to just get to it. But a little build up can really enhance the experience.