had everything planned for weeks : a top rated hotel in miami beach, a room on higher floors with a balcony facing the ocean, and a longer booking with a girl I had been looking for for years. Our conversation were engaging and I was already dreaming of the morning wake-up with such a beauty by my side when the sun rises...
But then the hard reality came back : no show on the first day due to a mix in days, followed by another no show the following day due to reasons you only see in disaster movies... I am either the most unlucky guy in town today, or the most naive; didn't quite choose yet, and to be honnest I don't know which one is worst
I envy you local guys for such great ocean & heat...and to have a chance to repeat the book+no show sequence, until finally you succeed; I had not enough time and will leave with a bitter taste in the mouth
Don't know why I'm writing this; part of some self therapy I guess; and it's always more civilized than screaming out of my luxurious balcony
So good bye Florida, hope my next step in NYC before flying home will be more successful
And else I will stick to what Europe has to offer, which is not bad either and where I have the competitive advantage to be seen as a potential regular
Game on!

All I can suggest is don't ever spend money upfront... do incall, then we are the ones fked when you don't show up... happens to us as well and not only are we out the money YOU would have paid plus hotel and travel, we are out of another potential date who might have shown up as well. It's a shitty thing to do on both ends for sure, but I would not blame the entire state of Fla. lol. We did not fk you... she did, and not in a good way. I would be curious to know just how well regarded this woman was... seriously. Women who can easily replace a date are not generally concerned over losing one. How long was this booking? 2 hours, 4, etc. ? Just curious.

it was a longer booking, afternoon+night; prob not so easy to replace, hence my hesitation beteween super unlucky & naively fooled; but fked anyway :-

to be the number one issue here. I am baffled by the no show, I never in my provider career done that, I am always prompt, confirming the day before and the following day just to make sure we are double and tripled confirmed. Sure, emergencies do happen but how one handles it makes a difference.

NCNS is not something to protect... and she did it to you how many times?

Posted By: othon

had everything planned for weeks : a top rated hotel in miami beach, a room on higher floors with a balcony facing the ocean, and a longer booking with a girl I had been looking for for years. Our conversation were engaging and I was already dreaming of the morning wake-up with such a beauty by my side when the sun rises...  
 But then the hard reality came back : no show on the first day due to a mix in days, followed by another no show the following day due to reasons you only see in disaster movies... I am either the most unlucky guy in town today, or the most naive; didn't quite choose yet, and to be honnest I don't know which one is worst  
 I envy you local guys for such great ocean & heat...and to have a chance to repeat the book+no show sequence, until finally you succeed; I had not enough time and will leave with a bitter taste in the mouth  
 Don't know why I'm writing this; part of some self therapy I guess; and it's always more civilized than screaming out of my luxurious balcony  
 So good bye Florida, hope my next step in NYC before flying home will be more successful  
 And else I will stick to what Europe has to offer, which is not bad either and where I have the competitive advantage to be seen as a potential regular  
 Game on!  
   
 PS : don't PM for name, I'm not that kind of person and I'm the one to blame in the first place; after so many years in this hobby should have planned a plan B; I just had to let it out, and this reminder of the 'when travelling, always have a plan B' lesson might help some of you  
   
   
 

Two dozen or so mind blowing experiences vs. one NCNS.  If you had a Plan B, you should have activated it...

Yes, you read it right.....good riddance. Adios. Cya. Don't let the door hit ya where the Good Lord split ya.
Why? Because of your bad luck? Certainly not. It was unfortunate, regrettable, and has happened to almost all of us.
It's because of the "kind of person" (your words) that you are.
You have NO problem asking the community for help. You asked about ladies, then when you had that settled, asked for restaurant suggestions. In both cases you were given responses quickly and easily.
Now, when you've had a less than stellar experience, you refuse to give back to that very same community by letting people know who stood you up...........twice. You'll deny valuable information to the very same people who offered you assistance. Fend for yourself people......take your chances.....cause he's "not that kind of person".
"That kind of person" is considered, by some, to simply be a user.

Posted By: othon

had everything planned for weeks : a top rated hotel in miami beach, a room on higher floors with a balcony facing the ocean, and a longer booking with a girl I had been looking for for years. Our conversation were engaging and I was already dreaming of the morning wake-up with such a beauty by my side when the sun rises...  
 But then the hard reality came back : no show on the first day due to a mix in days, followed by another no show the following day due to reasons you only see in disaster movies... I am either the most unlucky guy in town today, or the most naive; didn't quite choose yet, and to be honnest I don't know which one is worst  
 I envy you local guys for such great ocean & heat...and to have a chance to repeat the book+no show sequence, until finally you succeed; I had not enough time and will leave with a bitter taste in the mouth  
 Don't know why I'm writing this; part of some self therapy I guess; and it's always more civilized than screaming out of my luxurious balcony  
 So good bye Florida, hope my next step in NYC before flying home will be more successful  
 And else I will stick to what Europe has to offer, which is not bad either and where I have the competitive advantage to be seen as a potential regular  
 Game on!  
   
 PS : don't PM for name, I'm not that kind of person and I'm the one to blame in the first place; after so many years in this hobby should have planned a plan B; I just had to let it out, and this reminder of the 'when travelling, always have a plan B' lesson might help some of you