Great Post!! I completely agree some may think you look like an 8 some a 9 and some a 10. Some people don't click and some guys are really hard graders. I think that's cheating for giving discounts on a 10/10 review. What if you didn't feel it was a "once in a lifetime experience"? Can someone give me a legit definition of "Once in a Lifetime Experience" Fact of the matter is we are all competitive this is a business and everyone thinks their service is a 10. I know I do.......unless I really didn't click with someone......and that's human nature......we all aren't perfect and do have "off" days......but on my off day I am at the worst a 9 heheheheheehe
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Posted By: keystonekid
9, someone else might consider a 10 or somebody else an 8. That is why looking at the lady's current pics is necessary.
Regarding performance, yes there are guidelines that specify what numeric score should be given if the lady offers x, y, and z. Because of the variables involved, it is important to read the details in the reviews. If you read several reviews about a certain provider and you like how her sessions evolve, then you might want to see her.
I have been hobbying for over 5 years and have written over a hunderd reviews. I have been on two separate boards in 4 different cities uder the watchful eyes of 4 different moderators. Up until the past few months, I was content with the scores I have read and the scores that I had posted or edited by mod to reflect TER guidelines. I had thought the only way a lady could get a 10 in performance was to DFK, CIM/COB, BBBJ, CFS, and Greek. My scores have been based upon that premise. I have read recent reviews of ladies getting 10 performance but no greek, no CIM, and some not even DFK. I know this is a subjective grading system, but can someone please tell me if the scoring system has changed, or whether it is ok to give someone a 10 without greek or CIM, or any of the other goodies? I had a provider tell me to give her a 10/10 but she did not perform the greek and was limited in positions. She had at least 3 other 10/10 listings. I am inclined to give her a 8/8 but she may be angry and retaliate. I had seen a provider in NYC who discounted her rates for 10s-- I did not know this before I saw her. I gave her a 8/8 not knowing her scam. She tried to guilt me to change her score by returning $$$ of her $$$$$$ donation by saying she felt upset and disappointed that I did not have a good time. Her friend whom I was banging during my next visit told me the whole story. Needless to say, I used the extra cash for another hour with her friend. I just need some guidance on giving out 10s.
I DO know that I find it curious that you feel you need "guidance" when it comes to writing a review of YOUR encounter.
If YOU feel it's a 10, give it a 10. IF you are aware of RULES here that PROHIBIT you from giving a 10... don't give it.
The FACT is... the ratings are NOT JUST for what is or isn't provided. They are for: Appearance & performance (attitude & atmosphere NOT in #s).
You state that IF she gave limited PERFORMANCE, you would give her EIGHTS (meaning two 8 scores). I don't see how that makes sense.
I am not the least bit surprised to learn that providers trade cash for 10's. I have even suspected that perhaps OTHER kinds of bargaining was taking place.
I GET 10's & I am satisfied that I promote myself honestly & ACCURATELY (I hide nothing) therefore I have STOPPED being concerned with the entire thing, for MY reviews BUT...
I DO WONDER why it seems such a foreign concept (to MOST hobbyists) HERE (in the reviews) to think for themselves when it comes to the ratings.
One member here actually said IN MY thread about this same subject that he tries to post #'s that are "in line" (or something to that effect) with the previous reviewers! THIS thread kind of confirms that he is NOT ALONE.
I my view, the rating of a performance has nothing to do with the specific acts performed I have had very good CBJ's and very mediocre BBBJ's. My view is the good CBJ should be rated higher. My experience has been that if the lady is comfortable with what is happening, she'll give a much better performance.
The notion that a "10" is impossible is a little bit silly, all you are really doing is making the highest possible mark a "9".
The rating system here is really not 1 to 10, it's really more like 6 to 10 with lower ratings consisting almost entirely of bait and switch or rip off experiences.
The lady has to provide certain services, but does not have to perform them on every date. So just because someone writes a review and they didn't partake in Greek....doesn't mean they can't score the lady a 10.
I've included a link with more information, from the last time this came up.
As the guidelines state.....the highest score possible is a 7. There are 4 services that can each bring the score up 1 point. So if the gal offers 3 of the 4......she is eligible for a 10 without doing Greek.
Now....before anyone asks......no....I don't know why she can't get an 11 if she does all 4 services. I didn't make the guidelines.....and I'm forever grateful that mods don't have anything to do with reviews.
I believe the scoring system works like this. Max score is a 7 unless a provider offers LFK/DFK, BBBJ, sessions with a 2nd provider, and/or Greek. Each one is worth 1 point, so a provider only needs to offer 3 of those 4 things to be eligible for a 10. I'm fairly certain it's only BBBJ, and CIM is not necessary.
Posted By: Annubis
I had seen a provider in NYC who discounted her rates for 10s-- I did not know this before I saw her. I gave her a 8/8 not knowing her scam. She tried to guilt me to change her score by returning $$$ of her $$$$$$ donation by saying she felt upset and disappointed that I did not have a good time. Her friend whom I was banging during my next visit told me the whole story. Needless to say, I used the extra cash for another hour with her friend. I just need some guidance on giving out 10s.
So you changed your score to 10's for the money? lol
it is human nature that recent events are more vivid memories than distant events. There's an old saying that 'the best BJ I ever had is the last one I had.' In truth, it is really difficult to compare with any accuracy or objectivity what a provider has done with you earlier this afternoon with what a different provider did with you 6 or 8 months ago. I generally just don't worry about prior ratings I have given to other sessions and just rate based on how this particular one made me feel and how much I connected with the provider. If I therefore give multiple 10s and that doesn't seem right, so be it. I can't see continually giving 9s to top performances so I can 'save' the 10 for something that may or may not ever happen.
9, someone else might consider a 10 or somebody else an 8. That is why looking at the lady's current pics is necessary.
Regarding performance, yes there are guidelines that specify what numeric score should be given if the lady offers x, y, and z. Because of the variables involved, it is important to read the details in the reviews. If you read several reviews about a certain provider and you like how her sessions evolve, then you might want to see her.
Great Post!! I completely agree some may think you look like an 8 some a 9 and some a 10. Some people don't click and some guys are really hard graders. I think that's cheating for giving discounts on a 10/10 review. What if you didn't feel it was a "once in a lifetime experience"? Can someone give me a legit definition of "Once in a Lifetime Experience" Fact of the matter is we are all competitive this is a business and everyone thinks their service is a 10. I know I do.......unless I really didn't click with someone......and that's human nature......we all aren't perfect and do have "off" days......but on my off day I am at the worst a 9 heheheheheehe
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder!
Xoxoxo AD
Posted By: keystonekid
9, someone else might consider a 10 or somebody else an 8. That is why looking at the lady's current pics is necessary.
Regarding performance, yes there are guidelines that specify what numeric score should be given if the lady offers x, y, and z. Because of the variables involved, it is important to read the details in the reviews. If you read several reviews about a certain provider and you like how her sessions evolve, then you might want to see her.
the time to look at some of your pics. If you look as good in person as in the pics, your scores should be off the charts (at least in my eyes). Now, do you ever travel to Orlando or Tampa?
have not had one but every one is a once in a lifetime experiance. just doing a list of acts is not going to get a 10. The gfe kissing, snuggle what ever i want with out any attitude works. I do not think I could give a ten performance. I do not know if I would ever give a 10 but what is wrong with an 8 0r a 9. Back to my favorite saying the worst sex I have ever had was fantastic. If I was ever asked to give a 10 10 I would either not review her or give the true story. this might be a reason that i do not see the very high rated providers.
10. Once in a lifetime. Many dudes here view "once in a lifetime" as being something almost akin to a religious experience, but it really isn't, if you think about it. In my case, it was the first time I ever met that lady privately...which is in and among itself...once in a lifetime. Going forward, assuming I meet with this lady again (and I would like to), any and all experiences will be...once in a lifetime. It's that way every time you hobby...no matter who you meet with.
Some guys feel (and have stated) that because TER says a 10 is "Once in a lifetime" (for performance), that it should never be given, because one might always have an experience that eclipses the previous best. Then, a reviewer would have TWO "Once in a lifetime" experiences.
I don't subscribe to that particular line of thinking, myself. If you REALLY did, the only time you'd give a ten is....on your deathbed, you have your wife/child/SO log you into TER, and go back and ask admin to change one of the 9's to a 10. Problem is, you'd probably die trying to make the decision, which one of those 9's was just a smidgen better than the other to deserve to be so honored.
Eh.....r-i-g-h-t.....
Then there's the other extreme. Some guys give out 10's like they're campaign buttons. The kick on these guys is that they deem a 10 performance for anyone that'll suck & fuck 'em after years (decades) of having to do without.
Look, there's no "right" answer here. If she gave you an experience that you think will be "tops" for you, give her a high-very high score.
The scores I give tend to be on the higher side, but that's frankly because I have a pretty good idea what my "type" is and that's where I focus my time. Usually by the time I've met a lady we've established some kind of rapport, from which I can tell ROUGHLY what her personality is. And THAT, to me, is where the "performance" comes from.
But let's be honest here; most of the ladies I meet here are WAY out of my league, and wouldn't give me a second look if we met at a bar, so it's almost ALL good, LMAO.
I think another huge factor in performance rating, at least for me, that I rarely see discussed is the length of the encounter. Obviously, you just can't do as much in a 30 min/1 hour encounter as you can in a multiple hour session.
I like to spend awhile having a drink and chatting with a lady. It makes me feel more comfortable with her and helps my performance, and I'm sure it's often the same for the lady. It helps make the entire encounter feel more intimate. Also, there is time to do just about everything imaginable sexually multiple times ... with more time to chat in between. So I can see the same provider as someone else, and easily have a better encounter just from the sheer volume of things I got to do and the length of time I got to do them.
When I think back on the ladies I've seen, I certainly remember the longer encounters more fondly. The same thing applies to multiple visits. It's really hard to compare scores against each other. A provider just doesn't have the same opportunity to impress me as much in a shorter encounter ... and that's no fault of their own.
the reviewer said "If I give you a 10 (assuming 10 is top score) then there would be no room for you to improve". Yea right. If I'm the best or one of the best at what I do, then why not give me the highest score?
I've never fully understood the number ratings and when giving/reading reviews, I've always focused on the written text (public and VIP sections) to get a feel for whether or not I wanted to see a certain provider. (This research usually supplements her website and TER posts--which provide a great first impression).
That being said, one provider told me that she didn't want 10/10 because some guys assumed that was code for BBFS.
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