Thanks soflaguy!!!

There are very few things that are absolutely definite. As humans we try to make things as completely absolutely clearly defined as possible.....then screw it all up with YMMV (aka real life).

Whether you are using words, symbols, phrases, acronyms, or secret handshakes.....nothing is as definite and guaranteed as we'd like it to be.

Just because a profile says BBBJ (seems simple and definite, right?)...if someone shows up with a 70s style jungle bush and hasn't showered in hours (or God forbid...days) the odds are he's not going to get that "definite" service he read on the profile.

The same is with all this BBFS hysteria.
Yes....I call it hysteria after it was merely announced that discussion of it (NOT promoting it) was mentioned on the boards.

Why people can't be real is beyond me.
We all know it happens.
Whether because of lack of concern, a "connection", a drunken encounter, heat of the moment act......whatever. It happens.
Let's just be adults and admit that. Opinions of it are left for another thread at another time.

I will stand by what I told you privately...and say publicly.
I refuse to believe that there is any single word or little symbol in print that is a secret hint as to BBFS being available.
Apologies in advance to anyone who feels otherwise.....but I think that's the most asinine concept I've ever heard.

You can say she's ultimate, grande, superb, or put all the +++ you want to. It means nothing universal to every single person.

So...as in life....the only thing consistent is....inconsistency.

Just sayin'
DD

As we all know, there are words, acronyms & phrases in the hobbyists dictionary that we may not be aware of, or there might be a misundertanding on what they might mean. A while ago, I used the phrase "ultimate GFE" to describe a particular lady. Then, I was told that ultimate GFE means BBFS. I asked someone else about this & I was told that ultimate GFE does not mean BBFS. The two people mentioned here are established people in the hobby, so obviously there is some confusion. Are there any other words, abbreviations or phrases that people may not know or might have multiple or hidden meanings?
Just wondering.

I don't think there is a universal translator for abbreviations (though I'm now curious who might have gotten the "Ultimate GFE" designation for special services--LOL).

I was once with a provider who asked me not to give her a 10/10 because she had gotten that review previously and then met with a new client who read that review and expected BBFS from her as a result.

The fact is that reviews are a guide, and YMMV.   (I'm not naive to think BBFS isn't happening, or that perhaps some ladies that I've seen have offered it to others and not me or provided it when asked [and I don't ask]).





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go back to the early days, and use the wise terms from St. Bart.  Back in the late '90s early 2000's, StBart (was his handle) came up with a "GFE Scale".  Here it is....  

St. Bart's GFE scale.

100% GFE = DFK, DATY, and BBBJ!
100% GFE+ = all the above plus BBBJTC!
100% GFE++ = all the above plus CIM!
100% GFE+++ = all the above plus swallows!
100% GFE++++ = all the above plus Greek!

Someone once asked how to rate a GFE that gave everything in the plain vanilla  GFE, but also greek - that would be:

"GFE with the 4th plus added"

I guess maybe we could make the fifth plus BBFS?

The word "ultimate" has been used to mean BBFS, especially recently. If you describe a lady as providing Ultimate GFE, some may interpret it that way, including TER.  You can say that a girl is an ultimate GFE, but not that she gives ultimate GFE service.  I hope I didn't confuse the situation.  When writing reviews, definitely leave that term out.

the same as a whoremonger?

I did not receive and was not offered BBFS here or at any time.

you gave me an orgasm and brought a tear to my eye (muah!)  That is why you are such a great mod, everyone should learn from you.

'Cause God knows if the "urban dictionary" says so.......well it's the absolute truth!

The internet has apparently replaced any need for rational or responsible actual thought from our brains.

Well....at least we have "Words with Friends"!

God help us all.
(actually I think he's too busy playing Angry Birds to give a shit)

Code words and the like aside, the fact is that when an escort provides a Girlfriend Experience, she makes you feel like you're in an exclusive relationship with her (even for the hour or more that you are with her).

But the fact is, it's not exclusive, and it's not a relationship.

It's an illusion, a fantasy, and we decide whether it's worth the monetary investment to experience it for a brief time period.

For me, it's worth it, as an escape from reality, from my marriage, from the pressures of my real life.

Others might feel differently.

First if all, "Ultimate GFE" isn't a word, it's two words. And second, just because the urban dictionary says it's so, does not make it so in Hobby land.  

As a matter of fact, about 90% of the 16 definitions it gives for GFE are totally wrong.  The urban dictionary blows (covered or not) and should not be used as a reliable source for anything.

is having to buy that damn eagle like the rest of us?  

LOL

It is one of those things that means many different things to many different people, but at the end of the day, it is just an "experience".

.....well things might me different, you think?????