Keep of count of your dates? Is that something that is interesting to you?

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I keep track now, but for reasons other than numbers. If I bother to do the math, it has a moment of interest.  I don't dwell on it.

When I was in college, a couple of my HS gf's got together for a sleepover. They did the math with me on my partners to date.  Basically, anything over 5 partners was more experience than anyone else in the room.  The astonished faces that went along with the grand total turned me off to counting.

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I used to get the same reaction, but I loved it!! I considered it my duty to shake up the more conservative of my girlfriends. Some were fascinated and envious, more were horrified. It was a fabulous way of separating the schaff from the wheat, leaving me with a solid core of true--and truly fascinating--friends.

I lost count long ago. But I remember having close to a hundred in my early 20s, and I'd only lost my virginity when I was 19. (I'd definitely made up for lost time. Oddly, as a virgin I knew I'd be a blissful slut once I'd had sex for the first time.)

"Blissful slut".      LOL.    That's the kind of "slut" we all love . . .  


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But I totally agree...I lost count a long time ago and don't care to even think about the numbers.
I am sure I would be shocked...

So if you are a blissful slut I wonder what that makes me???  Humm have to think about a new
nickname for me..

Makenzie

and I hope that the OP will allow me to chime in here.......

I used to be able to name all of the civilians that I had played with (about 20 in my 20s) but a year ago, after over a dozen years in this hobby, I sat down one night with a legal pad and a stiff drink. I started with the first pay-for-play lady (who's still around and still using the same photos!!) I ever saw and over the next three days, another name would pop into my head and I'd write her down on The List.  

I'd put a tick mark(s) next to her if I'd seen her more than once and also what city I saw her in. I then put an * next to her name if she had been amazing and another mark if she had been awful. The 'so-so' ladies got no mark.

After at least 85 ladies and about 110 total dates, over 12+ years, I only averaged one date about every 5-6 weeks. From those 85 ladies, only about 10 were truly wonderful (and they added to my date total from repeats...... I just saw our own LoveLee in Orlando for a 6th time so you know that she got an * next to her name!). About 20% were awful and the majority were somewhere in the so-so/just okay area. A 'so-so/okay' date is one where I'm thinking about what errands I can run on my way home from seeing her!

I hope that you nice ladies will not think poorly of me for my 'confession' here! ;-}

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