Hi Kelly, thanks for responding!
My experience in Florida was okay, but more like a lot of lookers but not many bookers. And the main thing I hear is, "other girls didn't show up, or other girls kept saying they were coming but didn't show up". But I have nothing to do with what other girls did to them! In Florida, it's like comin here, I feel clients are saying, "everyone else didn't live up to their agreement, You might be the same" it's very stressful. I dealt with it tonight. I was runnin late BECAUSE the client decided to wait hours, emailing me all day about the appointment. Going back and forth with "well let me see if I can find it for FREE". Yes, those are actual words. I met him anyway because I need the money..but he turned out great. Except, he was SO close to cancelling because I was running late....but had I known earlier he lived 40 miles from me, I'd of been able to better plan.
As to the other poster. Shutup. This has ABSOLUTELY nothing to do with any of my posts here. I don't even go by the name Bahamia in my professional life, this is a pseudonym. So that excuse in null and void. And no I dont bitch about every city I go to. I may assess and give my critique, but thats just how I see things. It's not to say I didn't still make coin, or meet anyone.
My main reason for coming to Florida is family matters. However, I've been coming here about once every other year since I moved in 2008. On this trip, I've made more money per client, but places like Tampa and Sarasota were FAR worse than before. I won't even get to Tampa or Sarasota on this trip because no one committed. Fort Lauderdale and Miami were dead the 3 days I was there except 1 client. Orlando is where I've had the best luck, but for every client I picked up, 3 more cancelled or flaked.
Honestly, if I'd just had the clients I had sans the cancellations and no shows, I'd not be complaining and been a happy camper (or boater, lol). My issue is I had atleast 5 clients that I KNEW were gonna see me, simply not see me for no reason even after making tentative plans. 3 were regulars I remembered seeing years ago. They'd email, even exchange numbers in some cases. One guy even left his address and business address in email. Then, 2 days later he sends an email asking when am I coming to Fort Lauderdale! After he just flaked the Friday before, That's what I don't understand. These weren't just hi and bye callers. These were established APPOINTMENTS.
I guess after the Treyvon Martin tragedy, ebony girls are getting treated even worse. I've never visited a state where people are this cold hearted when making an appointment with me. Just no regard. I hope they burn.
Posted By: itsmekelly
We have some really awesome hobbyist here in Florida! Regardless if we are touring or in our regular based area, we will have those that cancel (I do respect the fact that things do happen). Though it sucks for those of us that have paid high money for our room, etc.. or schedule our appointments prior to our arrival, You always have to be prepared. I can say that with me touring monthly (usually 3 to 4 states), I have seen more and more ladies complaining on the general discussion board about NCNS or those that cancel at the last minute (thank god for regulars). I always research the hobbyist during my back ground to see what type of ladies he likes to visit. In my own opinion, if he see's the more reputable providers he will be more reliable. Also keep in mind that many are still recovering from the holidays, not to mention it is also tax time. In no way am I trying to say this is ok but I do feel it has a lot to do with the people a providers choses to see. If the gentlemen you reference in your post are members of TER or any other hobby website, you should bring their information to the attention of other providers on the provider board (unless of course they had a legit reason to cancel).
Now I did not do any research on your post (like Pantera mentioned) or even look to see if you have reviews... you may even be a more seasoned provider than me... If so I am sorry for posting information you may already know..
I was just adding my quarter... Wink
I hope you give Florida another chance!
Kisses,
Kelly
Posted By: Bahamia
Florida native speaking here, but rarely come to the area but once a year or 2. This is no diss to anyone in particular, but I've never been to a place (besides Indianapolis) where so many guys book, but either cancel or fall off the face of the planet. No excuse, no follow up, total lack of commitment. I've been here for 3 weeks, and out of probably dozens of inquiries, I've only gotten 4 in between orlando, Sarasota, and ft Lauderdale and Miami.
I don't even know what happened to my regulars! I have like 4,5 guys I remember seeing from as far as 4 years ago....they booked or inquired, and then just stopped responding for no reason. Like its really bad right now.
Is this a cause of too much competition, or rather like I've heard from a couple other clients...a severe lack of quality among the ones here? Is it perhaps the time of year? One thing for sure....I will have to not come here for work purposes again. It's just been a total headache and a half. Luckily, all the clients I "DID" get were great, got myself a bag of designer lingerie from one client, and a nice rib dinner from the other. the ones I didn't see though were JERKS...cancelling even when I booked the hotel, or being mean spirited in their cancelling.
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