Once in a while I choose not to review a lady because I have nothing new to add, or she preferred that I not write one. As long as everything was on the up and up and her profile is up to date, I'm okay with acknowledging her request. Since I fulfilled my end of the bargain and was a gentleman during our time together, the ladies white listed me. So it can and does happen.

I've whitelisted gents here who have not reviewed me here. REVIEW and WHITELIST are two completely separate, independent functions.  as long as a gentleman is a member here, he can be whitelisted by a lady here.  I'm all about safety (for all parties), and so am happy to whitelist a gent on TER if he's a member here - even if he met and/or reviewed me elsewhere.  if he was a gentleman to me on our date, and therefore its a valid reference -  is there a reason why not?  it'll help him get future dates, as it'll help other ladies screen him quickly and easily.

all info is good info - for all of us.

edited to add:  for me, it's always appreciated if a guy writes a review - but I will never hold hostage a reference on him just because he chooses not to write one!

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