I rarely go out on dinner dates, but enjoy when I do.  I always like to have a little something to eat prior to sex, and a nice dinner out first creates a more memorable bond.  Having said that, I am often hungry right after sex, and would just as soon go out afterwards for a bite to eat.

Your paying for her time and dinner so her demands leave me feeling like she's a little self-centered.  

I myself would rather not eat anything till after since i'm not sure how the menu might agree with my stomach. Nothing worse than gas while he's dinning at the "Y" ....get the picture. Also sex does make me hungry.

Kisses Haley

Omg, to funny!! I NEVER have sex on a full stomach!! I'm sure I would get sick shaking everything up!! Lol
I do enjoy dinner dates, as I love not being rushed and enjoy the company of a professional gentleman, and come on, what women doesn't enjoy being wined and dined as opposed to just say meeting at a hotel and jumping in the sack? but typucally, we would sit around and talk for awhile say over a glass of wine after eating, drive back to the house, talk some more over another glass of wine, so by the time we had sex, it would have been awhile and we are both ready!

Of course most men don't want to spend that kind of time or care about getting to know each other on that kind of personal level. Certainly understandable!! but very nice when it happens!!

Does this mean she is not a provider? Perhaps a "sugar baby"? If this is the case, then too bad for you. She has absolutely no obligation to do what you want. And of course, you also have no obligation to compensate her in any "arrangement". If she were a provider, I can't imagine her making any such demands. Suggestions, perhaps, but not demands.  

But honestly- regardless of how you two became acquainted, why on earth wouldn't you want her to be comfortable with the situation?? I'd imagine you want your fun with her more than she needs your "arrangement". Hopefully she realizes this.

I personally prefer to dine before the evening in begins. It's more natural, and the erotic tension builds enormously- especially if the conversation is flowing. Chemistry is created and later ignited. Looking at the person across the table from you, knowing that in just a little while longer they will be in your mouth... mmm. Pretty hot stuff.  

Dinner doesn't have to be prime rib with baked potatoes. Keep it light- a nice seafood restaurant would be perfect. Or as was suggested, some good sashimi.

But for your purposes, maybe you could suggest dinner afterwards. It's a compromise- you both get what you want.
 

She is stuck on dinner, should I tell her I will fart and stomach growl. lol, but yes it is true, it is true!!!