I want to change my name for 2 reasons but with the few reviews I have my reputation is good so far. One if someone calls me MY-ra one more time I think I'll scream it's pronounced Meer-ra. And Blaze well seems to not really reflect who I am since I just found out about an Anime charater with the same name Mira Blaze it just does not make me comfortable I would die if I found out some kid stumbled across my site.So how can I make this change without making the boy feel i am hiding something?

Contact TER Admin for the TER change.  Then, put a statement (just like you wrote here) on your web site indicating why you changed your name.

Good luck.

...you'll find Lisa Real who used to be Lisa Butler. Excellent reviews, but for some reason changed her name. If I ever see her, I'll ask her why.