Crap! I never even saw this girl and she labeled me a psycho. If fact, we never even discussed a date and a time, it never got that far.  The red flags were raised early on and I walked away.  I think I have the cred to get past this, but now I may have to use references again.

I'm kind of nice, I have all my teeth and hair and shower at least twice a week.  I have never negotiated with or short changed anyone.  I guess I need to go into hyper-drive and get prolific and build up my Date-Check references.

Darn!  LOL

I never even look at those sites.

I don't doubt you for one second.

YOU ARE WELCUM HERE!

Just curious, how would one find out about that?

Grant you I have met Sofla and I am sorry this happened to him.  He is a very smart man and will figure out how to get around it.

However, why do you not use the other sites?  Personally, the one big one I never use either as it;s not a reputable sites.  But the other 3...oh heck yea I do.  It is unwise and not safe at all to not use the other's.  There maybe a circumstance that you can avoid and it could save your life...you never know!!!

Personally, I would strongly consider working this into your screening methods.  I take my screening very seriously but I can also filter through some of the things that I find on the sites too.

Makenzie

I TRUST myself & my INSTINCTS.

The lord usually rewards me for doing so too.

I do NOT even look in The Provider Forum & as MOST of you know...
I DON'T check references either.

I do NOT want ANY ONE elses opinion to CLOUD MY judgement.

Each side has had their say....and, as usual, neither side is likely to be convinced or change.

Everyone do what works for them....be happy....and wish for the best every day.

Simple.

Just sayin'
DD

Because to tell the world at large-- including men who are looking for easy victims-- that you ignore valuable information (not "opinion") offered by fellow providers that could save you infinite grief....

well, I only hope you realize that your "instincts" can be fooled. Just ask the victims of many prolific serial killers and rapists who used charm and wit to fool their victim into trust.

Oh, that's right.. you can't ask their victims. Most of them are dead.

Tabu

I USUALLY only do incalls.

When I do outcalls I have a screening process of my own,
that does NOT include the experiences of others.
& I ONLY go to nice hotels.

I am NOT defenseless (far from it).

I do NOT normally work evenings
& I have been in THIS business for WELL over a decade.
I managed just fine BEFORE the "check" type websites were available
& I am managing just fine now.

I stand by what I posted & it is TRUE.

"Check" websites are NOT FOR ME.

BTW... I know women who DO EVERYTHING to "check" on a potential client
& STILL have nightmare stories to tell.
Wasn't it Elle Vegas who not so long ago had a drug crazed visitor
threaten her with a bad review & stalk her to some degree?

We are ALL DIFFERENT. I do what works for me
& I don't care who knows it.

I'll give you a reference...

Seriously, there was a discussion about that on another board on TER.  Apparently there is a DNS list that was listing everyone, some with personal information, and then apparently trying to "extort" the gentlemen to get their names deleted. What a shame that this kind of stuff happens.

SoFL, with your credentials, I would not worry about this at all. I know it may be discouraging, but if you have never had a problem before, why worry now!

I know a couple of females ( I won't use the word "lady" with them) use the DNS list when they don't like someone just to be nasty.  I know for a fact that Veroniquegfe has posted a couple of guys she just didn't like on one and threatened others with the same thing.   I also know of one guy on a list that never saw a provider but ended on a list because in a normal course of business with a female she wasn't totally thrilled with the end result.

I guess some providers like to use the DNS list as a form of pay back. The same is true with some guys and the power of a review. Once again, homework is important. Finding out who you're dealing with is really important. There are crazy men and women in this business and being able to distinguish this fact is more important than you know.