Is it my imagination or are there more, and more escorts looking for deposits up front? I do understand if someone is attempting to book a “longtime” appointment, or for a distant date. But mostly these are providers who are unheard of, or have ads that “are almost to good to be true”. Using differs cash apps, or even Bitcoins, it would seem that there is a strong attempt being made to get deposit money and be done. Any thoughts??????
Only time I ask for those is if its an outcall to a new client or is a client who has booked and not showed ...
New outcall client 2 reasons. 1. They don't waste my time and 2 leo won't put cash upfront like that..
Repeat nsnc clients is so if they are wasting my time I got something 4 that wasted time and they r less likely to not to nsnc again
I don’t do deposits. Too many providers flake or try to change times or just disappear. And I’ve experienced it at all price points. Providers will respond with indignation as if their trustworthiness is beyond reproach. It’s not. But just my opinion.
I accept them via cashapp or through a secure credit card system (Stripe) for the gent that needs discretion.
I’ve also been around for 10 years, so I’m not unheard of.
My calendar is closed when someone books an appointment, and like you, I don’t like to be jerked around or canceled on. I do not live at my Incall either, so that 40 minute drive one-way for someone who may not show can put a damper on my day.
I’ve not had any issues with receiving deposits and my reputation puts people at ease. If anyone has a problem with sending a deposit, which I list is a requirement to see me absolutely everywhere on my website, then it’s best to not waste either of our time and take your chances with someone else. Having choices as both providers and clients is a wonderful thing!
I have been burned once. However you have been around a while and I would have no problem with your deposit policy. To build trust takes some time.
As soon as i even smell , deposit , I end the conversation and block the number .
I will not get scammed that way.
Deposits put your money and anonymity at risk. How does a hobbyist benefit by paying a deposit? I got burned once, and will never, ever pay a deposit again.
I can understand both sides! I choose not to request deposits unless it's a FMTY!
Rene Liz is a very high end escort at way above average donation. I have seen her a number of times, and each was really special. I was going to be in NE last weekend and booked her for a hotel near the airport in Hartford. Communication was excellent through her “assistant” Nikky. Confirmed the time and date in an email a couple of days before the appointment. Had previously asked for a 50% deposit up front to which I said no as I had seen her before. Nikky was ok with that, so we proceeded. The confirmation email said the price would be $300 more than what was listed in Preferred 411 and I called that out to her. She said that this was the published price and if I wanted to cancel, she understood. I then went back on P411 and rechecked the donation which was as I had questioned $300 cheaper and let her know. She wrote back that she would reduce the donation by $200 as an outcall fee. Nowhere by the way is there any mention of an outcall fee. I said let’s split the difference as I still would have liked to see her. She said no that the $50 would have had a negative effect on Rene’s attitude. I then said that this whole episode had been a clear mistake and cancelled. Talk about GPS and arrogance, not any further intention of trying to book her ever again. I can only imagine what would have happened if I had sent the deposit.
Jackjack22 booked two 90 min dates with me in the last 6 years.
He demanded I see him at a previous rate dating years back, refused to reimburse me for travel costs, and refused to pay a deposit. I did not trust him to travel an hour + without a deposit and made that clear through my assistant Nikky.
Nikky and made a concession for him in offering a grandfathered rate for the rest of this year 2021.
He was told that the travel cost and deposit were necessary.
He became pushy, rude, and haggled further even after being offered to honor the previous rate dating years back.
He did want to respect my boundaries, made me feel uncomfortable in the way he was communicating with my assistant, and therefore I chose not to see him.
When he was unsuccessful in forcing me to waive the deposit, and travel cost, he chose to get nasty and rant on this online board.
Two 90 min dates in 6 years. Not the strongest position to be demanding, especially with a terrible attitude. Total Turn-Off.
Rene
Well when you lie you lie. This is a total fabrication. I booked Ms. Liz via P411, or tried to. I was going to be staying at the hotel at the Hartford/Springfield airport, a very long 50 ,minutes of so from her booking location of New Haven. I booked at the rate quoted on the site. When it time for getting together approached her booker, Nicky reached out to me to request a deposit. As I had seen her before I mentioned that and asked to waive the requirement, which she immediately did. Then as I was getting ready to leave for Conn Nicky reached out to confirm the date of our visit and low and behold the price increased significantly. I pointed out to her that I had requested the booking based on the rate quoted on P411 and politely asked that that be honored as that was the published rate. We could not come to an agreement and I was not at all interested in paying her then current request. I was never rude and told Nicky I was sorry it would not work out. I never engaged with Ms. Liz and the accusation that I forced anything is nothing but a bold face lie.
I have seen Rene several times over the past few years. She has all way been honest and upfront with me every time. Not sure what happened but this is not the norm with her. So it must be you….
Man... you haggled... assistants are not the Better Business Bureau. But I'm always gonna presume she knows what the correct asking price is. Either pay it or don't. But it IS disrespectful to think YOU deserve a lesser rate.
I don't even believe in grandfathered rates. If a provider I like raised hers, I WANT to honor that. It has happened that a provider told me not to pay her because I was a regular, and still I sent her a couple of gifts. But it is always HER choice.
What I'm trying to say is EARN SPECIAL TREATMENT, DON'T DEMAND IT.
For some reason my responses to Ms. Liz are being hidden. I booked through p411 and the price posted there. When I tried to confirm the date I was informed that the price would be different. I merely pointed out to her booker that I accepted the price posted on P411. I did not "haggle" and only requested that they honor the rate I booked at which the booker would not so I passed. The booker asked me for a deposit and I informed her that I had seen Ms. Liz on two prior occasions and did not feel I should pay a deposit. She immediately agreed and there was never further discussion of that topic. At no time during my initial booking or the subsequent conversation with the booker did I ever speak in person to Ms. Liz.
For some reason my responses to Ms. Liz are being hidden. I booked through p411 and the price posted there. When I tried to confirm the date I was informed that the price would be different. I merely pointed out to her booker that I accepted the price posted on P411. I did not "haggle" and only requested that they honor the rate I booked at which the booker would not so I passed. The booker asked me for a deposit and I informed her that I had seen Ms. Liz on two prior occasions and did not feel I should pay a deposit. She immediately agreed and there was never further discussion of that topic. At no time during my initial booking or the subsequent conversation with the booker did I ever speak in person to Ms. Liz.
Wow, there sure are a lot if simping WKs here. Last minute price increases beyond what was shown on P411 (which is against their policy as well) would upset many upstanding gentlemen. Despite what Twitter may have you believe women aren't immune from criticism. The only think Jack did wrong was try and haggle at all rather than just cancel immediately and report the rate shenanigans to P411.
If all clients stop paying deposits then providers would stop asking.
That'll never happen. Too many guys are too horny to deny them a deposit if she's "the right one". Deposits are never going away.
If clients stop being timewasters, no shows and last minute cancellations without paying an inconvenience fee then providers would stop asking for deposits. If you disagree look for a provider who don't ask for deposits, everyone is different and with their own rules, take it or leave it.
I’m in a deposit situation right now with a well known Tampa girl. I actually had 2. But one was offered a private trip and refunded the deposit. She handled the situation great and I’ll definitely see her when out schedules allow.
Jury is still out on the other situation as we haven’t met yet but she has kept in communication with me which makes it feel less of a negative situation. Truth be told, we shouldn’t be paying deposits and we should be paying over $500 for an hour…. But it is what it is.
I never required deposits and still don't for most circumstances. After recently moving I had to give up my incall. It was hours away. I offer the choices of outcall, or I will split the cost of a hotel room. In order not to be stiffed for the cost of the hotel room, I require the gentleman's half to be covered up front. That way I am only on the hook for my half of the room, and the fact that he has made an investment will make him more likely to show.
The only other time I have asked for deposits is when someone repeatedly books and cancels. I can't continue to hold time open if someone is unreliable to show up.
TBH I am more in the public eye now since I started doing mainstream porn and I worry about ppl just trying to get my location as well as missing out on bookings when a client doesn't show up so, I've made deposits mandatory for all 1st time clients and once you flake you will be required to drop a deposit even if we have met before.
I run multiple businesses so, sometime I will have to leave one to entertain a gentleman and if he no shows Im out of money both ways. Most clients understand and drop deposits w/o any issue.
I am very well known so, the last thing I would need is dirt on my shiny name. 
This just happened to a provider I know, Cherie in Boynton Beach She was sent a verification email from what she thought was tryst. She clicked on it and her ad was stolen. This hacker changed the wording in her ad and was asking for a deposit. She has been unable to get a response from tryst and her reputation is now at stake. Be careful with deposits.
A deposit for me is the difference between wasting time and money on an incall that gets cancelled and establishing trust before we meet.
I only have a deposit on my Incalls/Overnight/FMTY because I work outside of my resident city for safety reasons. Insuring our rendezvous helps everyone involved have a good time. I keep in contact regularly, send updates on tickets if I’m traveling, and communicate the day-of.
I’ve been in the industry longer than my current name lends and I’ve had no issues thus far.
I’m pre booking only deposit always 10/20 percent required I ban and block anyone who don’t follow my lead simple and easy . I’m high end low volume get book up as I do Incall 3 days only every other month I fly out to California or if I host in Florida as I do lot of exclusive just one date in one day I basicly use deposit to book hotel in order to welcome my guest there
Hair dresser,personal trainer and many other service request deposit it’s just security for Time Easter anyone Hight class will give deposit as they understand the name of the game !
My regular still send me deposit to those day I date them !
Quality not quantity ladies know your worth don’t waste your time with wanna be !!!
I've never paid a deposit for a restaurant? And I've eaten at some top tier swanky restaurants. Just keeping it real! However, my only problem with paying deposits to providers is how do you keep anonymous since I always use cash?
I have never in all these years had to pay a deposit and have noticed the request for deposits on some other sites. Be very careful when you are offered the world and then they refuse to speak to you on the phone and ask 2 or 3 times where I am when I was going to their place. It became pretty obvious that the ads are phony and the advertisers is just trying to pick up some easy money. I would suggest you google the pictures and you will see ads all over the state. Oh and the funny ones is they will say Ft Lauderdale as their incall location but they ask my location and if I say lets say Pompano they will give an address in Pompano and sometimes it is an office building!. Becareful of the scams and report them and sometimes you can get their ad tossed.
I'm sorry but after a couple of texts if a lady won't talk to me I am presuming it is a guy that I am dealing with and poof I am gone.
Not every provider requesting a deposit is scamming. Cancellations and no shows are at an all time high. This is our income and we depend on the bookings, expecially touring ladies. The time is impossible to replace on tour and can equal thousands in losses.
I totally understand both sides, which is why I am flexible on the issue depending on screening. It just is crazy that so many professional men would be so oblivious to the need for security providers request. Expecially those who are reviewed, respected and have a presence online.
New girls are popping up with crazy rates, no reviews asking for deposits because they just copy ads. I have seen my ads duplicated everywhere.
Respect and trust is a 2 way street is all. My guys that see me regularly and send deposits immediately when they book me get the best affection. Sometimes we all forget here that we are all humans. I say just do your research and be cautious. I have refunded deposits when canceling tours. It happens. I had to respond quick so please forgive any errors.
On NYE I booked a reservation for dinner for 2. Fixed price menu was $85. Figure in a drink. Average minimum $100 each. They made me pay a non-refundable $25 per person cc deposit. No show they charge the card. That's Ike 25 percent. Because that special evening, those tables and giving up reservations to others are irreplaceable. A huge loss. The owner told me it cut his no shows by 60 percent! If I cancel my lash appointment within 24 hours they charge my card for a full visit. My hair girl. $100 no show fee. $50 cancellation fee within 48 hours to card on file. My spa... credit card on file to book. Same deal.
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Bentley
I believe if a new client or old making a two or three hour date .. It should be a 100 deposit to be fair . If a client do cancel atleast the provider didn't loose her time and day when she blocks that time with a client . Yet, most client don't do deposit some do generously in good faith
It really has become very disturbing to see so many requiring deposits and that well established providers are asking for them. The only time I'd understand a deposit is if were for a fmty. But the reality is that once the deposit is sent there is nothing that will ensure that the provider shows up at all. In other situations (major store purchases, contact work, etc.), the only time a deposit is provided is if there is a contract that ensures goods or services are provided. And if they cannot be fulfilled the deposit is returned. Providers have no recourse if they flake, which happens a lot. I've seen a provider talk about her time lost when a client flaked. It goes both ways. Many provides have flaked on clients. Our time is just as valuable.
As someone else mentions, the solution is that nobody pays deposits. Unfortunately, too many guys out there are willing to part ways with their money and get burned.
Can you imagine sending a guy your infall location when he was never serious and now he has your address. Nope, Lol. No deposit, No booking.
Also when you book and then no-show I probably turned down another client that I couldn't accommodate because you took that time slot (ex: You book at 3:30 and no show when I had a request for 2pm and or 4pm).
Imagine giving a deposit and she becomes a no show
You're out $50 and we are out $500-$1000+
In my 12yrs I've never taken a deposit. I love my gentlemen, I feel like deposits also scare away whinny men. 