If you found her on some sugar daddy site, then nothing you can do... that is why sites like TER exist. Did you mean you put out an "In Search Of" on here, and she responded? Honey, do not EVER send anyone money upfront... that's retarded, and you got played. Unless a provider is super reputable with reviews by established hobbyists, you don't send her shit... even then, NEVER pay the full donation upfront because it is a scam. Many women will attack newbies and say "Well if you don't have refs, you have to pay me upfront for screening." Um, that's not screening, and she is a total idiot. How do you find a reputable girl? Check the damn reviews!  

Any name you see, run that name and city through TER under the "Search Reviews" tab. If she is that hot, and that good, she will have reviews somewhere in most cases. You really don't need to be taking chances with the so called UTR providers, because in your case, you have nothing to prove they are legit. Once you are more established you can back channel with other guys about the ones that are not all over the net, but still work.  

To find out about fake photos, use www.tineye.com and even better, google image search. You copy and save her photos to your device, and upload them one at a time in those search engines. If you get a ton of hits from model and porn sites, then she is a fake! You need to visit the Newbie Board here to be honest... you are simply not ready to jump in deep waters.  

Also, you may have pissed her off if she IS A PROVIDER asking for pics... as if. We do not share pics here for the most part... we have websites and ads for you to find photos. You got screwed by a wanna be sugar baby, not a provider is what it sounds like, because most providers here have photos on the net already for you to see.

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It seems weird. There are literally billions of pics on line to look at, more then one could view in a lifetime. Why would anyone pay for a provider's pictures?