I still consider myself a newbie but I have found a common thread when I see a lady. 6 out of the 8 have commented on my size. I have looked it up, I'm sure many guys have, and I'm pretty sure I am average in length and girth. I am not that tall. I stand about 5'4". So what I think it is that I have a 6oz.steak on a small plate so it looks like a 10oz steak. The ladies asure this is not the case but the statistics say it is average.
My question is, do the ladies say this to everyone to stroke our ego or am I really that big or am i so small they think they need tomover compensate when complimenting it? I know this sounds like I am bragging but I really want to know. It is actually kind of a pain, literally. There have been times when a girlfriend felt so tight it was painful for both of us. Even when I am with ladies that deal with all sizes for a living they have wanted to take control at first so they could ease into things. It does disturb me a little but if they are just stroking my ego then it is unnecessary

I would love to stroke your errr, ummm ego!!! :

That's cute. I guess I shoukd have expected it though. I am serious. I was wodering if many ofthe ladies tell flattering lies about this. I guess it doesn't really matter. I would rather just be honest. By the way, Miss Milf, is it? If you are ever in Tampa or if if I get down there I promise we will have our chance to stoke each other's um ego.
Oh and, now this is serious, I already had you on my favorites list. I guess these people now need to figure out away for us to make a favorites of our favorites list.

Ha, that's funny though!
No, I'm guessing ladies see you (5'4'') and figure your size matches your height but then your man meat comes out and it's a little bit of a surprise. You can chalk it up to being "big for your size".  

just love to suck your cock."  Am I the only guy she ever told that too?  I doubt it.  She has since retired but she was highly skilled and a lot of fun between the sheets.

I once had a provider tell me it was nice to have someone my size. "My husband's so big it hurts," she tole me. Well, no question about my size I discovered.

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I've never had a provider say anything to me about size.  I have had comments on my ability to still have msog's at 50+ but that's it.

I too have always assumed that I was either average or slightly below average.  I guess I mainly used guys in porn as the point of reference though.  I'm not real long, but thick.  I have a woman recently complement me on girth and said, "Wait!" she had a can of Red Bull on the counter and held it next to my cock.  We both kind of giggled when she pointed out that I was almost the exact same length and size of the can.  I guess my point is, we are all different (women included) and what works for you may not work for me.  But it sure is fun trying!!!

I being a guy in the industry must say, this is a huge deal for some; others just like a good performing one.  I too am a Grower not a show-er.  About 7.5 erect, sometimes even 8 if I am really excited, but I know its how you use it at the end of the day.  I truly believe in the power of a healthy dick!

You see this is my point! I am no where near that size. That's porn star stuff! Congratulations, Armandotalia!  
The problem is I sill am left wondering. Clearly one of my questions has been answered, the ladies don't lie just to make me feel better but I am left wondering...
Am I so small that women feel the need to say something? I don't think this is the case.
Am I just average but it is presented on such a small plate that it just looks big? I tend to think this is the case. Back to my steak analogy... I am a chef. If I put a small filet on a large plate it gets lost. It is a small speck on a huge canvass. If, however, I put that same steak on a tiny little desert plate then it looks like a porterhouse! We all tend to eat with our eyes first. Women seeing a man's package are not any different. Since I am average sized but shorter than average in height....  
I guess I could run an experiment. I could find me a nice hot cougar who has seen a few in her life and show it to her without her being able to see me. She might have to play with it to get it to it's maximum size and then make her judgment. Who to pick for a judge.... I wonder if there is a hot cougar milf around that might like to do a glory hole expiriment. Lol!
I would need a control though...  who should I pick for that?
life is full of tough choices! Thank you so much ladies for giving me theses choices!

ALL OF YOU!  No hiding, because there is no need to. I will be honest and upfront with you.  I will coach you and make you feel secure enough to fuck the life out of me.  How's your tongue working?  Fingers are okay and not broken?

Your a gem on this board!  I have been reading several of your posts. You are hilarious and sexily playful! Yes, we are definitely going to meet if you'll allow it but I have to plan a trip down to Miami. That's a long drive but I have a feeling you would be worth the effort! Oh and don't get me wrong! I am not as experienced as I could be but I am not insecure about my size. Not at all. I am just confused about why so many ladies comment about it. Like I said, I'm not hung like our 8" buddy that posted. If I was I could understand their reactions. I'm not so I don't.  
By the way speaking of confusing stereotypes... what's up with stamina or staying power? I have always heard that women like a man to last as long as possible but I have found they start to feel uncomfortable and are ready for a break after 20 minutes or so. Is this just me or is there some other secret I am ignorant of?
oh and tongue works fine. I would love some lessons from you though. And my fingers.... well the same. Hmmm am I going to get a hot cougar milf mentor? Are you opening a school? Are you offering to let me be your student?  
I will show up on time and with a nice shiny, um, apple for my teacher!

love nice shiny, errrr, ummm apples (and bananas). Have you been eating your pineapple?

I will start trying to work in a day trip to come see you. It will be a little while. I can't get out of town until after mothers day. I am looking forward to my first day at school! Such a hot teacher too! You won't need a paddle or anything. I promise to pay very close attention. You would expect no less.
Pineapples? No haven't eaten any pineapples! They're to pokey and rough. I like peaches better! Soft and smooth with just a little soft fuzz.... mmmmm peaches. Oh and don't forget the juices inside! I love it when I am eating a peach and the juices are all over my face and dripping down my chin. You just gotta love those peaches!  
Let's not forget the melons! I wouldn't want the melons to get jealous. I like it when the melons respond to my attentions and bloom. I told you I am a chef. I literally turn melons into flowers everyday. Lol

Re: I will be in Orlando this weekend (eom)

How long will you be there?  Check your private messages

Obviously, what counts is what they do with it!  lol   And I have yet to find a lady on TER who doesn't have a pretty good idea of what needs to be done with one when she finds it

Thant's funny because I always tell girls I am hung like a squirrel but I believe I am just average.  I have heard from a couple ladies that it is big and I know they're full of crap but have heard from a few that I have a nice cock......who knows

Thanks to "PC Anywhere" I am able to access my PC in Kissimmee, Orlando from Finland.   Internet sucks here.    

Here's an article that'll tell you how to measure size and compare it to the average.

Thanks. Accordong to that i am average. Maybe they were stroking my ego. Maybe it is that i am short so it looks big like i said before.