One observation that I have to add is that most of the more mature providers refrain from that type of nonsense. My experience is that they present a much more positive viewpoint which is very pleasing to me.

me myself i just  say Good Fun Experince when asked if I do not know someone as there has been a HUGE cop feel to callers since i have had to advertise on mass sites thanks to Fosta bs knocking out members sites..

Are you reading & following those particular providers guidelines & preferences regarding HOW they wish to be contacted?

Because surely you understand that men do not always read let alone follow directions. Even IF women (mature or young) spell it out point by point for you. (Virtually hold your hand).
Thus lending to those women to be frustrated at men.

I for one have a non negotiable way of contacting & meeting me. Yet many men ignore it and trying to go around those rules to meet me.
While I'm not going to bash them. I sure as chit am not going to allow them the pleasure of my time & body.  

So perhaps you ought to school your gender on respecting the rules the ladies put forth. Thus elimi some of their online frustrations.

Now, in another breath.. You do realize that 99% of most providers only see you as a job. IE: wife experience!!!
The 1% want to enjoy you.
So those 99% don't care about venting their frustration & bashing those men whom ignore the basic rules put forth.

This is how the LS will always be.

You must be the exception to the rule.