The opposite sex from being in the business, either as a provider or hobbyist? I am not talking about civvie friends and lovers. Are most men the stereotypical macho "gotta be in charge" or can most of us be compassionate and show our "feminine" side? I'm talking about behind closed doors . No subject is "off limits"! Eom.

1. Women are all very different and impossible to figure the hell out...but it's fun trying (most of the time)

2. I really enjoy having sex with them.

Just sayin'
DD

I learned that they wish to provide a sensual moment in time. When the door closes behind you, they also close the event. Great providers live in the now and extend their body, (great providers their mind) and close the story when its over. Some of us want to think that it could be more but they shouldn't. Live in the moment, and if it was moving, ask or plan to do it again. But don't think that it will ever be more than what it is, a moment in time.    

I USED to have a combination of all types of men cum to me...
from "women haters" looking for someone to feel superior to
all the way to men who love womanhood & everything about it
& were "too good to be true" & EVERYTHING in between.



As I have evolved through the years...
my "target" clientele has changed & I have mastered my ABILITY to "draw"
only my target clientele.... YIPPPEEEEE for me!


The only kind of men I see now is the kind I consider perfect.
That is... an older man who is generous, affectionate & GRATEFUL.
Funny, smart & interesting get me a little wetter too!


Edited to add: I DO see younger men once in a while
IF I sense they have an "old soul".

Younger men & "macho men" were USUALLY what I called "pounders".
They couldn't care less how I felt, they loved to "see me sweat" (not from joy)
& they did their best to "work me hard" for the ENTIRE hour.


The men at the other end of the spectrum were difficult because...
IF I didn't initiate everything... we would stay in the doorway
for the entire session & my nature is to PLEASE and therefore...
it could get frustrating.


The perfect middle was rare... until I understood MYSELF
enough to promote myself AS MYSELF & what do you know?
I get "a good time" that is pleasurable & exciting in many ways
for both of us... every time.







Oh ya... I want to make clear...
this is NOT USUALLY a hobby for VERY YOUNG men... 18 - 25.

When I say "younger men" while discussing "the hobby"...
I am referring to men between 25 & 40 years old.

























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even though they have plenty of experience. lots of men like lots of different types of women at all price ranges. Here's the goody...Some men will only write reviews about top ladies even though they see tons of ladies. Not sure if this is an ego thing

Kisses Haley

What I've learned is that this hobby is as expensive as golf but more enjoyable in my opinion.

Some women don't want reviews written about them. I always ask them first. And 1 out of four say that they perfer not. For those that do, if I can write a nice review, I do. The only exception to that is if it were a BAD experience that I feel the hobby needs to know about.

1. money CAN buy you happiness
2. you will never regret paying for real quality
3. surprisingly, providers apprear to be more honest than civies

quality providers are a lot more interested in MY happiness & well being than most all civies.

You have hit the nail right on the head!

Not always an 'ego thing.' I prefer not to write about my nightmare dates. Just don't enjoy trashing the lady regardless of how much she deserves it. Generally speaking.