It's well known that us guys have a wish list of ladies -- near or far -- that we read about and would like to see.

Do the ladies ever read posts/reviews by a guy and say, "I hope he calls....."?

Have you ever e-mailed and said, "Hey, are you interested in meeting...."?

Your loss Questions.

One of the greatest things about this board is that a person's true personality shines through in their posts and participation. Most of us, men and women alike, can a get a general idea about a person just based upon their posts, interests, comments and participation.

Personally, I would never email saying "are you interested in meeting" as such a comment could be construed as a "hustle".  There are ways to say "I read your post, enjoy your input and think we may have alot in common."  This would be more subtle. Then there are those hobbyists that we would love to meet, but just accept the fact that may NOT happen since because, let's face it, it is the gentleman's choice here, not the ladies. The gentlemen have certain preferences and desires.  I may want to meet someone, but based upon their reviews and comments,  they may prefer a busty, blonde young porn star. I am a natural, older brunette GFE. Big difference. Would I email saying I wanted to meet him? No. There is no reason to.

This is what makes the world go round though....variety! It's the spice of life!

I think that any educated, experienced provider/hobbyist can realize from the reviews both given and received whether a person would be a good match for them. That is what this is all about. We are all afforded the resources to determine this.

Thankfully, after over 10 years of being an upstanding TER member, I been able to discern which ladies would be a friend and we would have chemistry. I can also determine the fine gentlemen who have become friends and realized those who are danger and not worth associating with  any further. I am able to allow my true personality shine though!

The ladies and gentlemen together with the Staff that support us all make this a wonderful experience and a joy to be a part of the community.

Hope this helps....

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everyone might think he's trolling for a plug here.

IF....it's a he.  Maybe it's just another lady asking the question....

Very well said Sexy Toni. Happy Holidays !!

Since there's been only one reply that addressed the actual question.

So feel free to PM them to me.  LOL

It sure would be fun to find out who is on them.  I have had several ongoing things with ladies who reached out to me first. We had chemistry, I enjoyed the banter and I really liked the fact that they reached out to me.

I for one would love to receive more "I think we have a lot in common" e-mails.....

Have a great time with a big hearted person who absolutely loves what she does. Happy Holidays...

...seems to me that grown ups can pretty much decide what they want to answer or not on their own.  That being said, it might not be the best business marketing approach available...do you really want to see someone if you don't make their list....?

That being said, it is an interesting question I think...and perhaps an interesting twist on the traditional expectation.  Could be just me...I like an aggressive woman...but I can't imagine anything tougher to resist than an invitation from a beautiful woman...