Hi all. I posted a couple of request for info about some BP ads earlier. I had seen some other provider info requests recently and hadn't read all the discussion board rules and guidelines, and didn't think my posts would offend. I let my enthusiasm get the best of me.

I apologize. This is a wonderful community and I'd very much like to be a part of it. I'm going to take a deep breath and try to increase my listening to speaking ratio.

Thanks for reading!

Tineye is one of the best ways to search a picture of a lady with no reviews. I'm sure if you ask, gentlemen will give you some advice on how to use it. I noticed one of your posts about a BP lady and have seen that picture for a long time. I believe I have seen reviews connected with the picture but not to the name or number listed this time. Doing a google search gave little info except those few new ads. To me that signals a problem with that pic and ad.

"Taking one for the team" is one of the things that makes this community grow and opens up new safer playtime for others. Not all gentlemen are willing to take those chances but every lady here has started with one review opening new pleasures for others. By using different methods to rule out a ripoff or scam will make this experience real and not just another disappointment.

Having new fresh faces on the board is exactly what TER wants and needs so please stick around.

Kisses Haley

You are contributing so it becomes a get used to people calling you out on a gaf now and then.  This is a old boys and old ladies type club that are not so welcoming at times and since it is not face to face it is easy to drive a point home without much tact. Keep playing and some will fall into your corner.

Thanks for the great reply Haley! I had already run searches (Google, TinEye) without succeess before posting. I should have pointed that out in my posts.

Btw, I saw that one of the posts generated a thread of replies, but I didn't read them before I deleted the threads. If anyone said something and I missed it, please feel free to PM.

2 of my measly 3 reviews so far are first reviews, so I'm trying to do my part.

Thanks for the suggestions and the encouragement!

Thanks Marty! I guess even the old boys were new boys at some point, right?

I've spent 2/3 of my life online, so I can certainly take any kind of abuse that comes my way. And dish it out, too, if the time comes! But when I'm in the wrong or I make someone uncomfortable, I acknowledge that, apologize, and move on.

Just glad I got it out of the way before ta-ta's Tuesday started!

a good learning tool for you & other newbie lurkers. No reason to apologize for it either. I don't think you offended anyone, & I didn't see anyone insulting you on the 2nd thread you posted, just giving out good advise.

We were all newbies here one time. Hell, I just lurked for 6 months on TER & read everything I could on Florida board, rules & policies, newbie board before I made my first post, then 3 months later after that i started the hobby, lol....I kinda don't just jump into things, lol...

Like I said before, I think you're going to have to travel to bigger cities to expand your choices being from where you are, or contact  Orlando ladies who will come for a 2hr. min. visit to you after varification.

Buy VIP & get on P411 or date check verification site.

Happy hobbying....& no apologies needed!

Thanks for the reply!

Yeah, I'm sorry the rest of the thread was collateral damage when I removed my posts. If anyone contributed to that thread, I'm really sorry to have removed your content as well. I appreciate the time and effort you invested in answering my questions.

Unfortunately, I didn't read any of the replies to those posts. My posts were approved while I was AFK for a while, and then my pocket started buzzing with email notifications of PMs from several frequent contributors to this board whose opinion I hold in high regard, advising me against posting what I did and suggesting that I consider deleting the posts. Since I've been here less than a week, I will quickly defer to a more experienced opinion without second-guessing, and I immediately deleted the posts. (I had limited time, so my only goal was getting the posts down as soon as I could.)

So the deletion wasn't in response to anything that was said in the replies, because I didn't even read them.

I've got VIP here (and am loving it!) and I'm looking into P411 and DateCheck. I've met some wonderful people through TER so far, so I'm hoping to build a good reputation that way as well.

Throughout everything, I've found every member of the TER community I've interacted with so far (and that has interacted with me) to be a delight. I keep saying it and I'll say it again: I'm so glad to be here! Thanks again for the words of wisdom!