I am very aware that in this world that guys make their own decisions on who they want to see based on their own preferences and girls make their own marketing rules.  However, it was recently brought to my attention that another local girl (whom is very well reviewed) has some marketing tactics that I find very tacky and inappropriate because it is geared towards me!!  What I find comical is that she a few months ago posted that another provider was contacting her clients out of the blue. Well now she is turning around and doing it to the gents that chose to see me!!!  Humm…appropriate? Not in my opinion and here is why I feel this way…

For the past few years I have had nothing but drama, been harassed and stalked by this one and only girl and I am just appalled and honestly sickened by her tactics.  Why would you go out of your way to contact a gent and compliment him on a review he wrote on another lady for no other reason than to try and wooze him over to come and see her.  However, maybe she is trying to get information out of the gent’s about me and my life, what I am doing, etc. Plus, she has also contacted other gent’s who have seen me and blatantly been very rude to them. This is not only absurd and out of line, it is very disrespectful to me and to other’s—particular the gent’s.  It is not discrete in anyway and plainly in very poor taste!!!

While I truthfully don’t care what other ladies do and how they get their clients, when it affects me personally…then yes I care.  I have been around for 6 years now and am fully well aware that us girls do not own our clients. All the gent’s that are in this hobby have all different kinds of tastes and I wish for them to test other waters.  

Ultimately this lady is a danger to this hobby world and need’s to just mind her own business. It’s no wonder why I keep to myself more and more these days.

So here is my question to the gent's..

How do you feel about a provider contacting you after you have written a review on another provider and them asking you questions about her or the said session?..This is not affiliated in any way with a ladies screening process..

Please keep the comments on a positive note...this is an honest discussion on whether this is a turn off or not to you..

Makenzie

My response would just be "No thank you". No matter the product being sold or business, I do not buy from sales calls.  Do consider, she may not be targeting you, but doing the same to other ladies as well, just not caught by them yet.  I also agree with you that this tactic is tasteless.

I have never been asked by a provider about a review I wrote, or about other providers.  Seems to me it's pretty rude on her part.  If it did happen, I would probably put her on my Do-Not-See list.  My relationships with providers are not of her business.

I met you several years ago at a Tampa MnG, you seem like a nice lady.  It really sucks that another provider would feel threatened by any provider.  Most providers I know, will recommend their friends and/or give references to us guys.  Bad-mouthing another provider is just not right.

Swim

Ugh! Can put a gent in a compromising situation. A no-no!

I'd tell her to pound sand...

It is without a doubt off limits to inquire about a session with another provider.

However it seems that there is more to this than a simple question.

Good luck!

If I had this happen to me, she would not call me back after I got done telling her what I thought of her. If I want to meet a provider, I will call her. NO ONE should be calling me and trying to get me to see her or get information about anyone. I am sorry but this would not go well. We are all out here by our own free will and should not have anyone impose themselves on anyone. Just my thoughts, maybe a little old fashioned but thats how I feel about it.

ladies need to deal with. To put it bluntly, this type of behavior is NOT professional. I don't buy (or contimplate buying, i.e. seeing a provider) from sales calls.