I'm something of a regular at Eyz Wide Shut, and it's a good joint.  Very clean, and on the right night the place can be hopping with attractive swingers.  Some nights can be decidedly less-busy, but such is the nature of things.  There's a barside with a dance floor, but of course the real attraction is the other side: their playrooms.  There's a dozen or so small rooms fit for private liaisons or exhibitionist shows if you leave the curtains open; men will certainly line up to watch if so.  They also have a large playroom (open only to couples and invited singles) which sees lots of group action: orgies, gangbangs, etc.

I have a fellow exhibitionist MILF FWB so we love to go there, get wild, and screw each other (and whoever else catches our eyes) all night long in front of whoever wants to watch.  You, Kyla, would be the most popular person there with those gorgeous, exotic looks.  With any luck, my friend and I will be there to say hello!

Barring that, there's also Caliente perhaps 20 miles north of the city.  It's a nudist camp by day, and at night the lovely clubhouse building turns over to swinger dance parties and such.  Officially speaking there's no on-premises sex, but the pool area occasionally becomes a full-blown orgy with folks sucking and fucking openly.

If you decide to skip all that, the best strip clubs are on Dale Mabry near the Bucs' stadium.  Some like Mons Venus, others prefer Scores, but my favorite without a doubt is 2001 Odyssey.  Crazy hot ladies (if not up to your quality) and private rooms (unlike Mons).  Hope that helps, let me know if you want to know more!