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A few years ago....
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A few years ago when I was still up in Chicago, I had a date with a highly regarded lady. I saw her once and everything was fine. When I went to see her a second time, she was drunker than a skunk!! Booze bottles were overflowing the trash can and she was acting very strange. I told her that I didn't think that she was up for the date and decided to leave. Shortly after that she retired from the biz. I love to share a glass of wine or a cocktail with the ladies but moderation is the key.

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A couple of weeks back, a date was planned and clearly the other party was either intoxicated, or under the influence of other substances.  I was wondering if as a provider, have you ever had a bad experience with this issue?  Or as a hobbiest have you run accross this problem when meeting up for a date.  Do you follow through or RUN!!!  I think it's one thing to have a WILD time TOGETHER however starting the party EARLY or POUNDING the coctails is not SEXY or APPRECIATED by EITHER PARTY EVER!

Listening.....Waiting....Wanting to hear from all of you.

I don't appreciate an inebriated date. But I did join a good friend of mine for a double once, and she warned me that the guy was constantly inebriated. She explained that he was harmless, and described his behavior while drunk, so I was reassured. The guy was so sweet, but yes, he was pretty soused. Fell asleep in his plate.

I think if I had met him out of the blue for a dinner date I would have made my excuses and wished him well. I just don't know how to interact with totally intoxicated people. Plus, you never know if this person will be dangerous or indiscreet.

A few years ago when I was still up in Chicago, I had a date with a highly regarded lady. I saw her once and everything was fine. When I went to see her a second time, she was drunker than a skunk!! Booze bottles were overflowing the trash can and she was acting very strange. I told her that I didn't think that she was up for the date and decided to leave. Shortly after that she retired from the biz. I love to share a glass of wine or a cocktail with the ladies but moderation is the key.

I had seen him many times before but think I was the first girl of the evening usually. He always had a cocktail in his hand when I visited and it was the real good booze he drank. He visits Orlando a few times a year and hates to be alone. He will book back to back dates with different ladies.

This time I arrived are 9PM the second day of his visit. He called me in the morning and wanted an overnight. I arrived and knew he was drunk but not as drunk as he really was. I changed into something sexy and came out of the bathroom to a man snoring in a chair faced towards me. I helped him to the bed and he was out till 6AM and he remembered nothing. we had coffee together and offered him some fun but he said he had meetings. Handed me my overnight donation and kissed me good-by. Said it was the best overnight he had ever had.

Kisses Haley

Not someone I have saw in YEARS but there was a lady who I suspect was not exactly sober, but was fun from years ago when I used to visit Iowa.......  Yes Iowa LOL

Bigpart52

I had a guy so drunk he threw up all over my incall  location he was embarrassed he payed for my room for a week and tipped me graciously. We still laugh about it to this day funny funny funny

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Kyla

But one should barely be able to notice it. Some people need a little something to help them relax. However, I'd have to walk if my date was drunk or high as a kite. I wouldn't be comfortable going thru an appointment due to the risks involved. Too many bad things can happen when someone doesn't have their shit together.
I'd caution anybody to either get so drunk/high, or to be with somebody that is obviously not right. While there are some fine ladies and gentlemen here that would never take advantage of the situation, all it takes is one bad apple and you could be f%#&ed like like never imagined. First date, I'd recommend playing it pretty straight. If you've repeated several times and have built up a level of trust, I suppose it's okay to get a little hammered "together". Playing safe should always be a priority.

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