I'm still fairly new to this hobby. I'm looking for an outgoing & wild SP to dress, act, and talk very naughty, but don't know how to ask without offending her. About a year ago, I made the mistake once of mentioning this in a phone conversation. I worded it carefully and I didn't think what was I saying was too graphic or offensive, but her response showed me she was very offended by it and she stated that she never acted that way for anyone. I apologized, and we did not end up getting together. I'm still bothered by the fact that I offended her, and I do not want to do that again. Other the other hand... that is what I am looking for. I know this is just play, and at least to me, it most definitely does not reflect any judgement on her. It is just a fantasy of mine.
So if anyone has any advice on how to know if a SP is into this type of play without offending them or hurting their feelings, please let me know. Providers, is this a common request? Are you offended if someone is looking for this?
submissive female? If so, by all means seek out fetish providers! There will be plenty of ladies willing and happy to fulfill this request.
I have a very strict policy on no mention of anything of the sort when contacting me, so pay attention to her website and how she likes to be contacted. I also do not offer any fetishes to anyone I have not met. But on the search feature here on TER, I believe you can find ladies who offer fetishes by looking for those who offer BDSM.
Maybe you can write a little story about your fantasy on a word document and send it as an attachment once you've established communication with her.
Don't worry about it. If it happens again you will be tied up gagged and whipped. If you want a response give an area. Check with yourgfeassistant. She knows a lot of ladies with varied specialties.
Posted By: WatchaDoing
Sorry - my bad. I don't know why I put "SF" - I meant "SP" for service provider. I have since correct my original post.
There's nothing wrong with asking for a dressing request which most ladies take.
Say my fantasy dress request is " black stockings, short skirt, little panties" or "cheerleader" or "heels with ankle socks, plaid skirt and surprise me with something special up top".
Also for this role play request add:
"I want you to take charge with a little dirty talk to boot". Your not saying anything sexual or wrong as far as I am concerned. If the lady you picked feels uncomfortable with this conversation move on. If the lady can't handle that she is never going to give you a decent role-play.
Is best to read reviews and find out for yourself about her demeanor, you can always look for a PSE provider if you are interested on a more expansive menu without having to ask explicit questions.
Most of your reviews are in Boston, with one from Miami. I live in the Tampa area, but make frequent visits to Boston. I just returned from a trip there. If you read my reviews, you will find a very wild and naughty person. Of course I am in the mature category, so if this is not your cup of tea, I totally understand.
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