I am a caffeine addict so I like my coffee early and often. With my att I usually get one early and late. If I meet a new. Friend I might try for 3 cups. If I was to guess most like the coffee early rather than late. But I would just go with the flow.

cream and two sugars! :P

What a great question! The simplest way to find out is to ask as a sort of icebreaker. I agree with one of the responders up above, I like coffee so much that I like to spend a coupleopf hours and try for as many as three cups.  The first to enjoy the oral sensation of a good cup, and the next two to savor the deep, rich penetration of that wonderful aroma. But I know that others prefer to focus all their effort on a single cup. In any case, other things - like mutual massage or serving a nice  southern snack which many of us enjoy - make for outstanding palate cleaners whether before, after, or in-between cups.  It's all such a delightful experience, I am sure most men would be very comfortable letting you know their preference in light conversation.

I always make it clear very early and my body can only handle the one cup.  If only "decaf" had a way of recharging the body's battery . . . .   :-

honestly let the cups flow as they may... or may not....

few years, I would enjoy my first cup and then after a massage (or mutual massages) I would enjoy the deep aroma of cup #2. Now, I am only able to get pretty much 1 cup in an hour. Multiple hours sometimes produced 3 cups.

I have learned to go with the flow and once you have been in this biz a while it becomes pretty easy to read clients wants and needs.

...each cup and let nature decide how many...I suspect there are as many ways to enjoy as there people.  And no I don't think, it is your"responsibility to offer soon after I walk in the door?"  We are each responsible for our own enjoyment.