HIV, STD's BBBJ and BBFS Warnings

Does AID's exist? While I personally know of people who have it and have died from it, I do believe it exists. Just as STD's exist using protection to better the odds is always good advice. When I first found the FKK scene they used to turn away foriegners at the door. They still do this today, although less common. Even today big clubs like GT turns away some guests at the door. I've witnessed it myself, this is why they almost all use buzz in security doors so they can control who comes in. Some of the smaller less known clubs want to protect their regular client base from illness. Some clubs turn away people by their skin color. I've heard reasoning from some races don't treat the women well and cause problems, are loud and smell bad. I've also heard the reasoning that dark people come from Africa where AID's is rampant.

In all fairness have you done a Google search for HIV infections by country? Germany is very far down the page, towards the bottom. While almost all African countries are at the top or to 10. What scares me is the huge influx of Indian people who now have money and are traveling to Germany. India is in the top 3. So the chances of getting HIV from someone from India appears to be greater then getting it from someone from Germany. But then if that German gal was just with someone from India last week and today she's with you, what does that mean? It's a crap shoot and all we can do is assume.

While I was not shocked at a previous post where someone just plain asked "where do I find BBFS? (bare back full service)" It did make me think. It does scare me how common the question is becoming. I recall a guy I used to read about that went to Germany often, he also talked about BBFS as if it was some special thing he managed to do. He died a few years ago, quietly, never to post again. This is also what scares me, what happens when the customer comes down with HIV?

I can tell you if the club get's wind of this the girl is banned from working. Since the day the customer tells the club they got infected and who the girl is the club may be liable. This is the last thing the club wants and you'll never hear it on the news, its taboo for business. I've heard of Syphillis cases at 1 of the 3 big clubs near Frankfurt, the girls (there were more then one) who were suspected of having it were quickly removed, never to be seen again. OK so the clubs won't share this info with you, its bad for business. The women I'm sure are not going to tell you "hey I'm HIV or I have a nasty STD".

So what do the customers do when they come down with it? Do they stop living, stop making money, go away, hide in a corner and die? I doubt it, many ignore it, some are angered and lash out while perhaps the very few do the right thing.

I met a guy once who was going to Germany for sex, he had come down with HIV by doing BBFS in Thailand. He had been banded by several clubs and threatened by people when they found this out. So he merely jumped from one paid sex country to the next. This really bothered me, but it also enlightened me at the same time. What happens when you get infected? I was surprised to find that some infected women have the notion to spread HIV to as many men as possible for revenge for them being infected by a man. Who do you blame if you become infected? Yourself for not wearing protection, the partner?

The harsh reality was when a poor working girl in Thailand told me she had no alternative but to continue working till she died. Infected or not infected, when it came down to her feeding her family and you getting infected what do you think she did?

OK it's harder for a man to get it from a woman then a woman from a man. But its not impossible and you'd be surprised how many women allow anal.

The sex trade in Germany is changing, years back it was a more local hobby, clubs were more private, less known and did not advertise on the web or paper. With the economy when it came to staying in business they opened their doors to the non-locals. Places like the Palace which used to be known as "Paradise" and be much smaller and less known are today well known for tourist. Even the female talent pool is mainly foreign (not women who live in Germany). The chance for infection is much greater today then ever. By the larger customer base and the larger talent pool of women who work in Brazil one day and Germany the next (this is just an example).

Buyer beware, Russian roulette is a great comparison. If feeling a bit better for a few minutes is worth putting your life on the line you need to re-think life. Russia by the way is No. 13 right up there with China, USA, Thailand and Brazil. India is No.3. The pattern appears to be relative to travel, business and paid sex countries. Except for Africa, perhaps this has something to do with poor countries?

This is my opinion, my experience, just my view, I can be wrong. Its just some things to think about when joining this hobby and wanting to continue to enjoy it, not just for you but for all of us, providers and clients. Think about it before you do something that might cause problems for us all.