Providers never update their calendars are they relying on their little black book for dates. I look on sites and check calendars but nothing listed. How are we supposed to know where they will be next week. Providers how do you book clients? Do you just call guys that you had booked before? I see that ?????? will be in Birmingham next week end but what about next week. Do you not plan ahead just schedule a visit for the next few days when you get low on money and call somebody or what.

And site calenders are notoriously unreliable, because as you said they're (typically) sporadically updated. It's unprofessional, I think; if you have a calendar on your site, maintain it!

So what do we do to meet new clients or reconnect with previous ones?

1. Maintain standing "home" ads on sites like Eros, P411, Date Check and have profiles on discussion boards like this one
2. Post daily/weekly ads on boards like this or sites like Backpage
3. Wait for them to remember how much they wanted to see us again

That's about it. In general, ladies contacting gentlemen for a date (Sadie Hawkins style), is relatively rare. For the most part, it's the gentlemen who contact us the first time/again -- after seeing one of our ads, our board posts, stumbling across our websites, etc.

Regardless, if you're ever interested in a lady and are unsure when she'll be available or in your area, the easiest thing to do is just call or email her directly.

Thank you for your response. I noticed several ladys I am interested in have posted that they will be xxxxx this week end then send messages that due to no pre-books cancel the trip. If we had more than a days notice perhaps the pre-books would be there.

I have experienced ladies reaching out to me in following instances:
1). I post a discussion thread inquiring on who may be working over a particular period of time
2). I have a regular or established history with a lady that knows my general travel routine and she just checks in occasionally to see how I am doing and if she needs to block out time
And finally
3). I get into a series of board discussions or pm exchange, and the the lady " suggest " we have a private conversation

These exceptions are pretty rare, in Dallas I only have connections with two, maybe three ladies where any of these occur. And one lovely lady seems to have access to my actual outlook calendar as talented as she is at predictive scheduling.  

 In my travels to Atlanta where I am pretty established however, Sadie hawkin request are not uncommon, ego enriching, and usually extremely pleasant when I act on them.  Again though, that is a unique and exceptional fact pattern

Otherwise your post is absolutely spot on, thanks