Dallas
I'd don't believe it is demeaning at all unless it is something the Lady would rather not have take place and the Gentleman does it anyway. As with any bcd activity, as long as both parties enjoy it then whatever flips your trigger (pardon the pun...lol) should be the rule.
Personally I have always been fascinated by the male body, some parts more than others (wink). I'm constantly amazed at the journey from flaccid to rigid to explosion and take pride in my part of the trip. I always figure if I put in the effort its my prerogative, as long as the Gentleman agrees, to accept the product of our efforts together on whatever surface area of my body I wish...lol. I don't remember ever being denied in this activity and besides, its great for your skin...lol.
It all comes down, as most things do, to a matter of personal preference. Thats what this Hobby is all about and one of the many things that makes it great! While this particular activity may not be for everyone I would caution you not to limit your horizons too much. You might just miss out on some really fun experiences!
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I curious what the facination is with the "pearl necklace"? I have had a few providers spew my guys on their chest while talking dirty or moaning like it is was making them hotter. I also recall one lady at a strip club talking about what a turn on it was for her.
What is the rush? Is it seeing the Hobbyist blow? I sure this has probably been discussed previously. It just seems strange and "yucky".
When I blow I would rather it be CIM or while I am inside the provider.
http://www.pussylipz.com/06/nextdoor/15.jpg
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it IS hot to watch- at least for me. Even more fun when I'm in a double and the guy comes on both of us - or on one of us and the other can lick it off 
I love Russian, though....
I know that there are a vast array of preferences and fetishes in the hobby that excite people which explains the variety of provider types (i.e. BBW, Spinner ...) but this just seems somewhat demeaning to me.
I respect your feelings and as with the above example YMMV. When I started Hobbying DATY was not on my to-do list. Now it is a "staple" in my Hobbying diet.
Maybe giving “Pearl Necklaces” will rise to the top of the list in the future.
Who knows?
TOMC
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I'd don't believe it is demeaning at all unless it is something the Lady would rather not have take place and the Gentleman does it anyway. As with any bcd activity, as long as both parties enjoy it then whatever flips your trigger (pardon the pun...lol) should be the rule.
Personally I have always been fascinated by the male body, some parts more than others (wink). I'm constantly amazed at the journey from flaccid to rigid to explosion and take pride in my part of the trip. I always figure if I put in the effort its my prerogative, as long as the Gentleman agrees, to accept the product of our efforts together on whatever surface area of my body I wish...lol. I don't remember ever being denied in this activity and besides, its great for your skin...lol.
It all comes down, as most things do, to a matter of personal preference. Thats what this Hobby is all about and one of the many things that makes it great! While this particular activity may not be for everyone I would caution you not to limit your horizons too much. You might just miss out on some really fun experiences!
-- Modified on 12/11/2006 7:08:09 AM
-- Modified on 12/11/2006 7:09:54 AM