I am new to the hobby and I need to know what is the best way to start getting references.

Get registered with a screening service such as preferred411.com or datecheck.com  ...

Most ladies will do employment verification but we not all do.  We all have to start somewhere and the best advice is to get screened by the above mentioned services.  They are discreet and very helpful!

Hope this helps!!

Kisses,

Shanna