Thanks Everyone.. The support is very helpful.. Thanks again!!!
I GET CALLS.. AND IN THE PROCESS OF MY SCREENING I SAY THAT I MAY ASK FOR A GLANCE AT HOTEL REGISTRATION AND I.D. ON ARRIVAL OF AN OUTCALL!! NEXT THING IS A DIAL TONE ON ME!! AM I DOING SOMETHING WRONG? I THOUGHT I WAS BEING SAFE.
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Others might have a different take, but showing ID shouldn't be a problem. Not sure about hotel registration. No comment on that deal.
I ask because anyone can get a Hotel.. Now If alls good i figure they would have the reg w/ them as well... Correct? I would feel safer..
At the beginning it's a bit difficult on both sides. I had a helluva time at the start getting screened. You - with no reviews are going to be a question as well...
Stay safe... don't compromise, just know that sooner or later you'll have reviews and this will be easier.
Consider offering "public meeting" time... this would be 10 minutes or so for a glass of wine in the lobby lounge or whatever - where each has a chance to meet and feel comfortable off the clock... if it's a TER member, you might get a review. In any case, casually asking to see ID after a few sips and laughs is cool and no legit hobbyist is going to squirm.
I have asked them to meet me down in the lobby...i have found that part easy at times but discreetness is what guys want most... would it be the same, having a drink in their actual hotel room? thanks.
once in the room, well, anything can happen. In the lounge, it's public and either one can leave... also, if something is 'wrong' it can happen there out in the open... you aren't trapped in a sting situation, if that's the case.
Legit people know the 'warm up' time is about you being comfortable... any LE knows they will be sniffed out in that situation, so I doubt they would go there.
I research providers that offer this 'warm up' time off the clock - I feel it's necessary. After all, any attorney gives a new client 15 minutes of get to know the situation, before the clock starts.
I recently met a provider, who insisted on 'warm up' time - she actually talked to me for 45 minutes before she led me to the bedroom, then proceeded to play time for nearly 2 hours - though my appointment was only 1 hour. She said, she was so 'into me' that she lost track of the situation... if that's a line or a hustle, it worked - I've seen her 3 times since and it's always close to 2 hours, and she never asks for more than the hour donation.
So at times, the hobby is very enjoyable for all... like anything it takes time.
I'm not sure what you're asking for when you say hotel registration. I'm in a hotel right now near Texas Stadium and the only thing I have for the room is my key. I won't receive anything else from them until I check out.
As for ID, that's never been a problem.
One thing you might look at is the reviews a guy has already posted, if he's got alot then it's doubtful he's with LE. He would almost have to be in league with TER to get 8 or 10 reviews just to catch the ladies in a sting. And I seriously doubt TER would ever agree, after all they aren't craigslist. ![]()
You might also consider using a service such as P411 or one of the other screening services.
Combined with TER reviews it would be very difficult for LE to trick you if a guy had both.
I use TER and P411 and with me I figure if that isn't enough then I just look a little longer until I find a lady that accepts these. My reviews are from all over the country since I'm a trucker and I figure that speaks for itself.
As a matter of fact I sent you a PM but never heard from you. You'd have 2 reviews by now but I had to give mine to another lady. Good Luck
How do I check my PM's... Are they sent ot my e-mail?
but would have no problem showing an I.D. if a lady wanted to see it. I've never been asked to see my hotel registration. It seems like a strange request, but I don't see any harm.
As suggested, just be patient, keep putting up your weekly ad, and the gentlemen will get to know who you are. Before you know it, the reviews will start coming, and from there it just gets easier.
Good luck.
Thanks Everyone.. The support is very helpful.. Thanks again!!!
I dont know how-to check them or where to look. How? ? ?
If I need a VIP Membership to read them I dont have one yet. Unlees there is a way. Because I dont know where to go check for any pms DB.
If you had a VIP membership, it's only 20 month... and you can quit anytime... you would get Private Mail (PM) which is how many of us communicate with each other - so everything is not posted for the world to see.
I sent you a couple with lots of info, website advice etc... even my cell # if you wanted to discuss that way - I assumed you got it - so when you didn't respond to that offer or even say, 'thanks, got it covered' - red flags went up.
On the other board things are left 'neutral' - and it's not a big deal there since you are in Dallas... it's good I didn't bring that stuff here... so now, you might consider being a VIP, there's lots more I could tell you.
Thanks Denny... Im glad its explained. As soon as my pymnt is processed I will definately pm you. XoXoXo.
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