Did my homework and selected 3 ladies to try to see during trip to SA.  Lady #1, called several times 7 days and 5 days before hoped for date.  Left voicemail only to get no return call; she doesn't have e-mail.  Last 4 digits of phone # 7433.

Lady #2, e-mailed about 10 days ahead after seeing her post here on the Texas board.  Says she needs multiple hr. appt. because of the long  drive (75 miles).  I write back "2 hrs. OK?"  No reply.  Thanks CC.

Lady #3, e-mailed about 10 days ahead.  She wrote back--fill out my screening form.  Electronic problems with screening form so I e-mail her the info.  She writes back 4 days later saying her computer was broken but she gives me a contact #.  I call and leave a message.  She calls back several hours later and sounds very nice and says "I want to see you."  Date set for 10 p.m.  After a fresh shower I light the candles.  No knock.  At 10:15 I call her (VM again) to see if she is OK.  Never heard from her.  I arrive home on Sunday night and e-mail saying "I hope you are OK--maybe next time."  72 hrs. later, no response.  Thanks AJ.
Morale of the story--Don't play in SA.