you see a provider.  Many believe that it is imperative for a true GFE experience.  What do you think?

How do you feel about a provider who has a rule of no DFK or LFK?

For me DFK is a must especially if the Provider wants a repeat visit.  Let us know your thoughts and Ladies feel free to chime in on your thoughts also.

Is required for a return visit for me.  While I have had (once) what I might consider a GFE experience that included CBJ, you can't even pretend to have passion without the kiss.

kissing is essential... it is more of an art though and not a tongue fest...

I once had a provider walk through the door and started kissing as I closed it... she never dropped her purse and we kissed for 15 minutes... she had a mini-orgasm... and no tongues! never thought that could happen... so it is really about the chemistry I have with the lady.

But for the most part - kissing has to get passionate for me to return and that is hard to achieve without DFK.

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It feels weird to me not to kiss!

As far as how much tongue I prefer... a little is good most of the time, a lot is good for a few very passionate moments, but do I want to feel like I'm making out with a St. Bernard for two hours? No thanks!

DFK is a must for me. No DFK and I might not return.

I'm not sure if there's a real consensus defintion of a difference between DFK and LFK.  Or whether it's very meaningful.  I've had some kisses with just a little bit of tongue that felt very passionate, versus some with a LOT of tongue that didn't feel very passionate at all.

I love kissing.  But rather than worry about DFK versus LFK, my criteria is: does she kiss me like she means it?

A great kisser makes the date...and there are few better kisser than Carrie

Kissing is definitely high on my list... LFK & especially DFK!

I will agree it is a sensual art...it's a combination of things and not just physical.

Ok...but what if a provider gets a crummy kisser??

I rely on kissing to get the foreplay going.  Without it seems to robotic.  But when someone just has no clue when it comes to the kissing department, it's harder to get the juices going..ifinya know what I mean.

I am sure you can give him a quick kissing lesson to get things rolling.

On second thought, maybe you ought to start a kissing school. I may need a refresh course.

Oh,

I dig it the most, when it's allowed!...Never a bother to find out, either. Let the professional show you what's on the menu, and go with the flow--that'd be my approach.


Okay,
Bobbo

Carrie no one would ever through you in with the dawgs.

forget that... what's on the menu should never be in question if you go with reviews... more importantly, a history of reviews... the menu is THERE already - just don't be an ass - as in - unclean and disrespectful

when you post what you just did - someone could read that and think, ok, I'll give him some lame reason why I'm NOT going to do that, but please go with the rest of my flow...

PM if you need more 'info'

Sensei,

I just don't think I agree with that assessment, at all!

I mean, maybe I'm flashing back to a few times with Agency girls (it's a crap-shoot, every time--for sure) who've surprised me with a marked unwillingness for almost everything!

I'll agree with you that the current trend in my hobbying (search the reviews, make the contact, KNOW WHAT EXPERIENCE TO EXPECT) is much more fruitful and valuable, but...

There are times that you just don't know, bro. Is that anywhere near realistic, to you? I still think it's the lady's ballpark, and by-and-large, I'm willing to pay to play that game. Hell, nothing unclean or disrespectful (or even disrespectable) about that. Right? Let me know, I am probably way off on this one.


Okay,
Bobbo

Yep - didn't mean it that way at all... perhaps I 'misread' your post that I responded to.

It's why those of us who've been around awhile will say - it's not just a few good reviews - but a 'history of good reviews'

I'll PM you on this.

Let me be clear, though: to me, the lifestyle transcends little qualms like this, in certain modes, for certain transactions. Hell--a lot of that comes from the isolation of a very-unreliable, very-exciting environment of the hobby such as that here in North Texas, well outside of the Dallas "metro" area...

Outside by a good 100 miles, or a bit more. Stuff that it'd be pointless and unproductive for me to even try to express to you good gentlemen down there in Big D.

Right?


Okay,
Bobbo