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Going to start asking ladies to actually read my P-411 profile after this one,sad_smile
Sancho2 13 Reviews 14008 reads
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Met a  very well reviewed visiting lady yesterday and was pretty disappointed with the experience. Her reviews had all the qualities I look for in a date, and they were all 9-10's. Once we were in the date though, found out her definition of DFK was a lot different then mine. I've been told I am pretty big before, but to hear her tell it, I am the 2nd coming of John Holmes. It was obvious I was causing her pain, no matter how I tried, and eventually decided to give her a break and call it good, even though it was not at all.

I've updated my P-411 profile to reflect the fact that I am bigger then average. It's never been such a big deal before this one date. Going to make sure I am up front about the kissing too, and if I use P-411 as a reference for new dates, going to ask that the lady reads my profile instead of just seeing how many ok's I have.

I agree with you 100% I love p411 just for that reason alone. Us providers expect for the gentlemen to read thier information & websites. Therefore, us as providers we need to do the same. So, it needs to be done on both parts. With that being said; How can we expect to have an amazing session?.... Both need to be happy, and exhausted from 1 insane workout!

Amsterdam

I much prefer date-check.  You can put all the same things in there but you can also write notes and the girls can write notes to let others know that you are bigger than average.  When I give a reference I let the women know if they are larger than average because some don't even keep magnums.

Asking ladies to read your profile, where you stress that kissing is big part of the date is not enough. You have got to press this thing home, like really make sure you are on the same page. Ladies, DFK is a term that is hard to debate about, either you do, or you don't. That's fine, but if you are not into that, then quit advertising as GFE, because if we were being honest, no one would have a girlfriend who didn't kiss with some tounge. imo.

Amen! And GFE-wise I think it's OK to be a little shy about it at first, but then after a bit -- PLEASE BRING IT! And, don't continue to be shy as I do down on you and then kiss you again. I mean really, this is supposed to be fun for both of us, not some invasion ;-)

Agreed 110%... Only advertise what you enjoy! If you dont like it dont do it :)

yeah either you kiss or you don't. I go with the flow because honestly not all hobbyists want to kiss! I have no problem kissing, unless the poor gent has dental issues and really bad breath. The other problem is that sometimes I will have a guy(bless his heart) who will be into French kissing but he doesn't quite know how. He will just stick his tongue in and out of my mouth like a serpent. I do my best to tell him to relax and to follow my lead and to loosen up the tongue and lips but some just don't quite figure it out. Then afterwards who knows what they are thinking?

 As far as size, even if it's large and in charge it will go in as long a the lady is well lubes and she's actually enjoying it, and as long as the guy knows how to use it. Meaning work her into a groove and start off nice and slow and then together you both will get nice and worked up and it will be enjoyable for you both! Hm
mmm I am getting excited ;-)....

....okays are good, but not the barometer I seek.  If a gentleman's profile says xxxx is very important, I alway let him know my thoughts.  This way, there are no surprises.  It's all about communication.

Hugs and Kisses

I always read client profiles, there's nothing better than surprising your date by giving him what he loves without him having to ask for.

I am sorry you were let down by your experience. All you can do is find a lady who betters fits your needs!

p411 is awesome! and I love the site!

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