This is a new environment for me. I am the "girlfriend" (we've been together over 3 years) and I suggested bringing in a professional third party for some fun in Denver. Joined TER and have been searching for a third party. This is where I encountered the speed bump.... a lot of providers say they are up for the extra gal but I get the impression she would have to be a pro also (I am not). Any suggestions for narrowing down the list of options? What is the best way to find someone open to being the third party and willing to take charge (I am sure we will both be nervous)... Help