I recently gifted a lady I had seen a few years ago $100 in P411 points to use at her discretion for her ads there. Although I had not seen her in some time, I wrote her a brief note explaining the gift, who I was, and a few words about our last date. At the time I gifted her the c note, my intention was to be the "Generous guy" the ladies seem to find so attractive in setting up our next meeting. That system has a way of notifying you when a provider reads your profile. She didn't

Pretty sure that her failure to respond with a simple thank you, which would have been polite, is a good indication that it would be a waste of time and money to bother seeing her in future. So it goes, she was a dear, and I hope the $100 I gifted her that was a total waste of money for me helped her even if I sound like I am griping about sour grapes now. If the fly won't take the honey, why bother to give them any shit?

I remember when P411 first started doing this and here was a notification in my inbox letting me know I was given a gift.  It was so unexpected and from someone I had not seen in quite some time. Did I send a thank you note, you betcha.  Those points we Ladies get for giving okays get used up fast. Unfortunately,  I moved out of Colorado,  so we never got to reconnect.  

Don't give up hope.  There are Ladies who would openly appreciate your generosity