CavalierServente's smart ass comment about 47 "real" orgasms earlier brought this question to mind - how do guys not know when it is real or fake?  I don't get it.  With a real orgasm, there are strong contractions.  The stronger the orgasm, the stronger the contractions.  Those really can't be faked.  I pretty clearly feel that happening when it happens.  Seems pretty clear - contractions = orgasm.  No contractions = no orgasm.

Muscle spasms in the thighs!

To stoke the male ego

Makes no sense on my end... I want my orgasms! Feels to good!!!
Love
Zana

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Yes, a sure sign!  And sometimes a little giggling...

The reasons that girls fake it are pretty obvious:

Its the same reason GFE exists.  All of it is designed for an hour long suspension of disbelief, that an alluring young woman feigns sexual attraction to, hams interest in the conversation of, and pretends to be sexually satisfied by a male whom she has just met.  The hobbyist reads the exaggerated scribblings of an ego boosted reviewer, and expects, if not demands the same experience of the provider on his visit.  Like OP stated, orgasms can be felt, but the mind can be easily fooled, especially if it wants to be.

I occasionally orgasm in a sort of "different" way - through slow meditative processes, nipple play or autonomous sensory meridan response (ASMR). ASMR is like a brain orgasm, a bit hard to explain until you've experienced it! Just something to think about and research.

There are different types of orgasms than a traditional physical orgasm.