I was wondering if there was any agreement on how soon to start setting up an appointment with a provider. And of course I want to hear what the ladies have to say on the subject.  I seem to always get it wrong.

The more notice the better, its simple as that. Book several hours or a day prior and leave plenty of time for screening also.  

If you know you want a session with someone reach out to see what their schedule is like. Share when you have availability and what works for you then too. They will respond with some options and you two can go from there. What happens with me is a contact form comes in, I glance to see when they want an appointment and go from there.

I decline almost all no-notice and short notice appointments even if they are from repeats. I think most ladies prefer two or three hours minimum notice for same day appointments. I prefer two to three hours AFTER screening is complete.

If you want an early morning or later in the evening session then even more notice works best. We get the feeling sometimes that a guy gets a hard on and starts dialing. For me most of the time that just doesn't work and I have to pass because I am busy with other things and can't interrupt my day.  

The one think I think guys fail to remember is that providers have real lives just like you do. Most everyone prefers to schedule their time/day so they can fit in all they hope to get done. Once I book a session for any given day I tend I plan my day around that request and decline most others if they are not around the same time I am going to be at my incall -but that's just me.

Another thing to consider is that many providers share incalls which means we need some flexibility with scheduling.

Hope this info is helpful. Thanks and have a great week everyone! I appreciate this question and am sure much more advice I have neglected to mention will be shared.
Kendall  

last minute emails, texts, calls asking to meet in 30 mins. Then the dummies get all huffy that she will not jump through hoops to see him. I am so sure they sit around all day waiting for your call! How the heck they suppose to screen if you can not ask a few days ahead of time? Even regulars try to pull that stunt and whine. You really want to meet her, then tell her ahead of time so you can increase your chances. I do not know what is in the water in Chicago, but you all got a bad reputation for calling last minute and whining that no one is available but the crap girls. It is not so hard to let them know ahead of time.

There really is no requisite just don't "flake out" no one likes that $hit

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I think most providers like some notice especially for a first appointment. Understand that even if you know her you may not get a last minute appointment. OTOH I had a provider check in via email as she does sometimes, so I used the opportunity to book a week ahead even though I would not normally have contacted her until a day or two ahead.

I've sometimes gotten last minute appointments but had to go through two or three girls to get them.

I think there is no wrong way to do it as long as you're couteous and respectful of their time. Don't ever be demanding, and be especially understanding if it's last minute.

however I am thinking now I will no longer book more then a month out unless I already know the guy.  Way too many cancellations with ones who set the date a month or more out I have never met hogging up a time slot they never seem to find their ways into.  I prefer several hours to a week.  More then a week sometimes complicates things and can also lead to the gent getting upset if I do not have time to banter with him back and forth before the apt.  

BTW, I had a great fairly last minute one today that was scrumptious!  So much fun and with under 1.5hrs from my getting up and seeing the contact till the meeting, it worked out wonderfully since he was RS and super easily screenable.  Love that, all of it *wink*!

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I rarely travel to Chicago at this point because of the last minute scheduling issue. I can see at least a few hours notice but I've had times when RS2k is so overloaded with requests that they can take hours to get back to you. Honestly, it just makes me uncomfortable. I think "Why is this guy rushing me? Is he hiding something?" It just puts me on edge when I get last minute requests. I don't like it because then I feel anxious about the appointment and I'm not at my best. If I'm not at my best, I don't want to do the appointment because it's not fair to the gentleman. My two cents on that.

I prefer that you at least give me 12-24 hours notice. Of course, the more notice the better. But, at a minimum- 12 hours. That gives me enough time to be able to complete screening and do everything necessary to get ready. Also, to ensure that I don't have regular plans.  

I have actually had an overwhelming volume of gents requesting sessions within a few hours. Like, an insane amount. So, this was a very good question for you to ask.

Girls, a lot of times we don't know when we have an open window to see someone. I try a day or two in advance because schedules change and would not want to cancel. Sometimes the afternoon opens up and I think why not give it a try.

i know your brother..BingBangPoo..

If it's someone like an ATF, I make exceptions (an hour notice)....  These days with my busy schedule in my civie life 24-72 hrs is best for Moi....

....I recommend pre-screen to have that well out of the way (jmo). And even then on same-day WE'RE women and we like time to mentally & physically prepare/primp so (hopefully you're into women who care that much)....bare 'scraping by the skin of your teeth' minimum 2hr heads-up.

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Whether it is months in advance if a gent knows his schedule.Usually most gents who contact me book a week to a few months in advance.Being that I live in a city that has many conventions I try to be flexible since I know if gent is here on business he might not know too far in advance his schedule.
Or even if it is a day or two in advance I don't mind as long as I have availability.

Every now and then I might have unexpected availability on my schedule and can accept same day appt requests.Same day requests only apply if a gent contacts me in the morning and wants an evening appt and is fairly easy to verify.
I can't do last minute appt requests 1-2 hr notice doesn't work unless it is a gent I have seen before.
And even then I need time to get ready and allow driving time.
Every lady is different some welcome weeks or month in advance some want a day or two.
I would advise to take a look at her ads and/or website to see if there is a mention on her appt setting requirements.

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I am spur of the moment. When I get the urge I try to book an appointment. It doesn't always work out the way I want. It's not uncommon for me to send a email early in the morning. It's a challenge at times

Could be a great season between our two teams

Do the same rules apply to regulars?????????

BTW I do like to give 24 hours notice, at a minimum.  Just asking.

its really difficult for me to see anyone, including a regular, with 1-2 hours notice. Getting ready, travel time, schedule adjustments, and the like don't change just because you're a regular.  

I'd honestly expect more notice from a regular client than from a new one; my regulars know that I do lots of other things outside of providing, ya know?

Normally, 24-48 hours advance notice is preferred. I'm some cases, 2-6 hours is fine. If someone contacts me for a last minute appointment and I can't take it, I'll respond with days and times I can honor a request.  

It's just courtesy, really.

it is easier if I at least have a guest pre-verified, if not seen or a regular.  A hour or 2 notice if you have already been screened is no issue, the only problem you may have then is if someone else who had the foresight to pre-book has beaten you to the time you desire.  If you are going to be short notice it does help if you are flexible.  

Also, on a side note...  If you only have an hour or 2 window please let us know that.  Have had many lately that say their day is very flexible only to have them request a specific time only a couple hours out which is not a bad thing but if still needing to be screened via reference, more then that is needed to even hear back unless I personally know the lady.  My point is, if your schedule is not flexible please do not tell us it is and fill us in on when might actually work

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Unless you are willing to travel or are in a major area, you should plan ahead. At least every few days I check the sites out for traveling or local ladies that are going to host where I like to hobby. I'll make contact immediately and work my schedule around the appointment. Sometimes its weeks in advance. I usually struggle to find last minute dates, so it my case it pays to get dates well in advance. Weeks in advance.