I realize that beauty is subjective but if the rating system is based on a numerical range of 1 to 10, should it not mean that you gave a 7 because you felt that provider was more attractive than 70% of the population?  

It is really irritating to watch a 5 come through the door when the lowest grade (out of dozens) she was given was a 7.  Really?  A 7?  Where are you guys hanging out at??

I am no expert at the rating system, but I look at it like this.  If a provider is in her 40's, I rate her against what I think other ladies in their 40's would look like, and not against a 20 year old.  Being an older guy myself, I do grade 20 something women rather generously, because I am a sucker for a hot young babe.  I try to grade it according to the age group, not against the whole female populace.

It's all subjective. A girl who is amazingly hot to me may be a 5 to you. Actually I'm happy to see a willing gorgeous woman when I first walk through the door, but honestly, when we're in the middle of the heat there are other things that matter more. Meaning her attitude and her skills. I'd suggest considering all her reviews as a whole and not putting so much value on one number.

It is a well know factor plus obviously the discounts offered and asked by reviewers in exchange for a 10/10.. The whole system is flawed in my opinion... Hopefully we will see a better rating system in the future where the scores are objective and fair and not a way to retaliate against ladies also..

perhaps you did not understand the context of my post.  I am very supportive of most of the women I have seen.  If you look through my reviews, you'll see I am very appreciative with my appearance scores.  But think whatever the hell you want, I haven't said anything wrong.

She works hard to be 10 without charging like one.

If 10 means "once in a lifetime", then why does TER not force someone such as myself, who has given multiple 10's, to adjust all providers I've scored as such back to a 9 except for that special "10" babe.  Perhaps the scoring system was never meant to be taken literally.  Like I said, I'm no expert with the ratings system, and would love to know what the official answer is.

Thank you Paloma. You summed it up exactly right. When I started, 8's were considered great scores, now they're almost considered an insult. Pressure is put on us all the time for higher scores. Some of us resist the pressure but many cave to get the provider off our back and/or avoid the threat of blackmail or blacklisting.

Brooke is a solid 9 by anyone's standards. I don't know why any guy would find her a 7 unless they wanted super bone-thin skinny or BBW. She's very well proportioned for her height and she's very pretty. Yes, that's my opinion but I think I represent the norm here.

There's very little chance a provider in her upper 40's is going to be as hot as one in her 20's given the same standards of beauty. The rating system here is not set up to compare by age group - it's set up to compare all providers against each other regardless of age. Unless an older provider is a stunning beauty (I can think of a few) there's no way she can get a fair shake on this scoring system. If you're scoring by age group comparison, a 48-year old could be a 10 against a 24 year old. Can't be possible, age takes its toll and TER isn't set up for comparisons by age group.

Seems more of a hassle than it's worth.  You're more than welcome to have TER remove all of my reviews due to improper grading.  Hell with it, I admit here now to you TER administration, that I have no idea how to grade a session.  Hope that helps you out Polish Pirate guy.  Oh, and thank you

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You should review but understand how the comparisons are made. Comparing 40-somethings against 20-somethings is a losing proposition for the 40-somethings but that's the way TER set it up. I think it would be much fairer if age categories were allowed. Then a 20-something would be compared against other 20-seomthings, 30's against 30's, 40's against 40's. This would make the decision process a lot easier.

"Ten!!  I give it a ten!"

But I get what you're saying though...

I am giving you all the ammunition you need to have all my reviews removed for improper grading, and you are letting it slip away.  I can not gift wrap it up any better for you than I have here.  Outside of getting myself delisted or banned, I can not undo the mistakes I've made here.  Perhaps you can get it done, where I have failed.

lmao.   I can picture it now.  Judy is blowing Bob on the second bed of a double room at the holiday inn.

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And I've met Paloma and reviewed her (also Nov 13).  She never pressured to give her a good review. In fact, the subject never came up at all. Not sure if you were trying to imply pressure on her part, but it seemed that way to me.

...I guess I just don't see why scores matter so much to anyone on either side of the transaction. People (providers and hobbyists alike) seem to get so bent out of shape about these numbers that are being given out based on abstract concepts and individual experiences. One guy's 10 is another guy's 2, so you kind of have to take those scores with a grain of salt because they're just too subjective to be deemed accurate or inaccurate.  

That's why TER is smart enough not to provide the averages until there are a certain number of reviews.  Ultimately, like with any sample you throw out any outliers that are high or low and look at the median or mean or is it mode?  Therein lies the truth in the experience one is likely to have.

But the system clearly is wack to some degree...
It'd be an interesting economics thesis to analyze how much income comes from an extra point in looks and performance.

as in all things everyone has a right to review any way that they see fit even if it is not how another feels is fair.  You all have to remember that there are no hard and fast rules for reviewing.  If you are comfortable reviewing the way you are currently then keep on.

I think the scale is biased toward the high end for everyone...If you counted the number of 1-10's assigned in all the reviews given, you'd probably come out with a distribution where the average grade is about 6.5-7, with a lot more 10's than 1's... Face it, guys are reluctant to assign "1-4" particularly if everything else was great, ie attitude, performance, cost per time unit, quality of in-call, etc.  

I'm just saying I don't really see why. It seems rather trite to me.

I suspect most guys, myself included, don't want to call a girl ugly.  That said, in and Aldo-on-steroids or "blurred face with a description of stunning beauty" situation I'd go to the low end in a minute.  Hasn't happened yet, probably because as I've posted before I'm more or less chicken shit when if comes to TOFTT.  I'll save my bold moves for other aspects of my life thank you very much.

I agree that a certain standard should be met in terms of calculating averages (that's basic data analysis). My point is that it seems silly when a guy gets all incredulous because a bunch of other guys rated a lady higher than he personally would, or when a provider flips shit because one guy's score made her average go down one hundredth of a point.  

Numbers are just one, of many variables that should influence your decision in choosing a partner for some P4P playtime. You don't need a PhD to understand that they are based on completely subjective interpretations of an individual's personal, intimate interaction with another human being. Only the naive and uninitiated would believe they are going to have the same experience with a certain female that another reviewing client claims to have had. Understanding the distortion an unreliability of numerical ratings should lessen your reliance on them, and force you to look at objective factors that are uniquely important to you, i.e., appearance in published photographs, posted and somewhat verified sexual activities the female engages in, monetary considerations, location, etc. Unless you're the type looking for a human masturbation machine to simply get your nut off, the satisfaction you derive from your initial encounter with a female is a total crapshoot anyway, similar to a blind date in the real world. Sometimes you just need to roll the dice and take a chance.

Hello Latin hottie... Love your website. Let me give you a great review!

It may seem trite, but welcome to the essence of male sexual desires.  They are often heavily based on what we see; it is just the way we are wired.  For many men, the difference between an 8 and 9 (or 10) is significant and 'worth' more, however superficial and tasteless that may seem.  Again, this pertains strictly to looks.  I may have a '10' of an experience with a provider that is an 8 in terms of looks.  That doesn't change the fact that she is still an 8.

I agree looks are totally subjective. I have tattoos and fake boobs I can be a 9 to someone and a 5 to someone else. We are broken down to every single detail that we often tmes attract those who like what we are working with and sometimes attract some guys make rush decisions causing lovely ladies to be hit with lower number because it wasn't the right match. But I agree we should be broken into deeper categories by age, bdsm, ethnicity etc vs city.

Since you seem very adamant on this thread, including some statements of what a lady MUST be doing to achieve regular 10/10's, I was curious how a man such as yourself tended to rate in his reviews. I found it curious while you started out with a broader spectrum, including a pretty significant distribution of 7's, sometime in 2009 you simply stopped giving 7's out all together, and furthermore, jumped to an extremely dominant use of 9's (a full 3:1 ratio between your 9's and 8's in fact, regardless of whether we look at your combined appearance and performance scoring, or just your appearance section).

Yes, please leave.  Cancel your account, turn in your dick, and mosey on out of here.  

Life's too short right? is.  Thanks for the snap-out-of-it slap.  I needed that just now.

Judging from your last review looks like you really enjoy the taste.

Thank you for your interest in my reviews. If I gave a shit what you thought, I wouldn't have written the review.

Can't say I've ever heard the play done quite this way but the requests for 10's come all the time. Diversionary tactics are called for when the "enemy" threatens to destroy you. Call in the SWAT team and attack!

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Many if not most providers freak when their average drops or they get a lousy review. On this board, scores = money and I'm sure if your scores were dropping, you'd be concerned as well. You're right that providers put way too much value on scores but that's the way the system works here. A better system would be a thumbs up/thumbs down or better yet, no scores at all. If guys write a good description of the session, that is much more valuable to me than a couple of numbers. And when those numbers are 10/10's over many pages with high rates, I know exactly what I'm looking at and run in the opposite direction. For those providers who stroke out when they don't get 10/10's every time, you should know we're on to your game and you're losing new clients. But keep pressuring for those 10/10's so you can raise your rates sky high and we'll be wondering what else you're offering. I suppose some guys like the add-on services or those providers wouldn't keep returning to Chicago so often...

So you are a proud cum swallower !

First off Eve, your reputation is outstanding so no one here including me would question the accuracy of your scores. There are a few providers who deserve their high scores and you are one of them. I've never seen you and I never will but I've heard a lot about you and it's all very very good

CIM isn't one of them. You boys and your total inability to read directions. My word...

It takes time to learn this system. As bad as it is, it's at least something and if you learned from my post, then hobby on and continue reviewing based on the way TER set the scoring system up. All providers are created equal regardless of age in TER's system.

LOL, I didn't know this. I suppose BBFS qualifies her for an 11...

You beat me with that stick once. How'd that work for ya? Are you really fucking dense?

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Lol !!!

But I'm pretty much at the max rate for my base city and I still don't have all 10/10s. Regardless, I'm with you on a pass/fail system. That'd eliminate a lot of the issues. OOOH or how about a check+/check/check- system? It worked well in elementary school.