Hello,
      Just wanted to ask when you have cancelled out for reasons you couldn't be helped, near the last minute  . I do understand her side , I think.  
How do I get off her black list , if at all possible?  So far she won't even respond back . I'd really like to visit this gal and have even offered a premium for her inconvenience .  
 thank you ,  dorz

gottcha

Money talks, bullshit walks.

You THINK you understand her side?
Last minute cancellation is only slightly better than a no show. Booking an appointment then cancelling last minute is EXPENSIVE, not to mention disrespectful! She took a shower, got dressed, put on makeup, a little dab of perfume, prepared a candle lit room, gave up other clients before and after your scheduled appointment.  
I'd move on, or send her payment for the missed session, beg for forgiveness and hope she'll see you again

Not to mention, paid for the hotel room.

ou have two choices, either walk away and understand you can't see her again or pay her.  

pay a cancellation fee. if her website doesn't list one, then offer 100% reimbursement. it's possible she's not even opening your emails so put something in the subject line about it. if  you don't hear back, just move on.

nice text, offer to give her money for the inconvenience because you were really looking forward to the date before things came up. Be easy and let her know you understand why she's upset and distant. Send a good message and then from there just let it be. You don't want to come off too aggressive either to where she blocks her and completely omits you out her life.

I put in subject line I would pay for missed session ,and I WILL
told her in any form she'd like the money sent  
 didnt and wont ask for a new session  just want to pay her for the last

I do want to mention that some of us get a little sweaty in the palms when someone can't let go of and get past the idea of not seeing them, to the point of obsession. The need to make it right and not letting go is a bad sign, especially if you've never met. I know you personally probably aren't a psycho, but there are we've all had those people who have that tendency to want every mistake ironed out, and have to be seen in a positive light to the point of constant obsessive emails. They end up being a lot of work, or worse, like you never know when you're going to step on a landmine.

Ok I posted and if say she has my mail sorted to junk then theirs nothing else i can do  
  I tried to make good of it but your point is well taken , thank you .... , I'm certainly not trying to make things worse than they already are  
.I didn't cancel at the last minute it was hours before hand which i know doesn't make things any better .  
But thank you for the good advise... I'm going to take it .

She's saying no. The end. Stop being creepy and move on.

I know exactly how you feel because I've been there...and it sucks.  It is possible to put this behind you but be prepared for the potential for setbacks ...especially when you're reminded of the person by board posts or ads that may come up periodically.   People can tell you to you over it...and technically they're right...but doing this can be easier for some depending on individual circumstances.

I saved $400
But seriously, this cancellation cost another escort $$$  
There were several other ladies that I was considering and would have booked someone.

Your right  , thank you  
I did what and all that i could and am going to do  
  I do feel a little bit better and far as I'm concerned , its done with

Time wasters are the worst.

Love and lost Love than to never loved at all.
Best to let her be and move on.