I was wrong in my first post to you. It seemed at first like a nice idea but the others here are right. Please take their responses not as a criticism but as instruction.
Hobbyists and providers are in this with full knowledge and informed consent. Your friend also absolutely needs to know what she's getting into. Otherwise you're violating her rights and just asking for trouble. It's wrong and it has potentially terrible consequences. Emotional consequences for her certainly, but also possibly legal consequences for you. Do you really want this friend to hate you? Just tell her you're totally up for this but the girl you know who can help out happens to be in the business. Ask her if you can pay for this experience. If the deception is part of the turn-on for you then you need to understand it's an issue you must not act on. We all have issues. Don't do this. You'll have hurt your friend.I have a friend visiting me soon who is curious about having a lesbian experience. I'd like to have a professional in mind to really rock her socks off, and make her swear off men if possible. Would introduce you as a friend, slip the donation in a book with a "Thanks for letting me borrow this" perhaps.
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I think you should be honest with your friend up front about this transaction rather than trying to slip one over on her. Even the best of intentions can result in unexpected consequences when it comes to people's feelings. Hasn't it crossed your mind that she might actually be hurt and upset when she finds out her new friend was paid by you to be with her. Everyone deserves to know what they are getting into up front and let them make the choice.
This scenario is ugly and deceitful in the worst of ways. And don't forget screening - how are you going to screen a woman who doesn't even know she's seeing a sexworker? Many, many people would be disgusted at the thought of being physically intimate with a sexworker. That's HER choice to make. Not his. Not yours. HERS
If many many people think getting intimate with sex workers is disgusting,why are there so many dudes here paying for the Ass still?Get real
TER is for folks that are looking for P4P. You need to get real. The person in question is not aware of a sex worker being involved. Brush up on your reading comprehension skills miss wanna be high society.
And the part about him wanting the friend to swear off men sounds kind of creepy, too. If she wants to, great, but why would he have a goal like this for her?
That was a bit of an inside joke to someone here who didn't answer her messages.
Whether or not the joke is inside or out in the open, not having your friend's consent is really beyond.
Assuming she is actually in on it and he gets to take part in the fun.
First and foremost, as some have already pointed out, most of us out there would need the screening information of the other person involved. So right there, the "secret" is blown.
But even more importantly, what about the agency of the woman involved here? She has agency and free will, and she needs to give her consent to whatever happens to her. To do this under false pretenses just stinks of manipulation.
Honestly, this sounds like the you have a very specific fetish/fantasy/role play scenario in mind wherein youre humiliated by the fact that a woman can outperform other men (meaning you) in bed. Which is a totally hot role play and fantasy to be involved in ASSUMING ALL PARTIES ARE CONSENTING TO BEING INVOLVED IN THE FANTASY.
Also, let's not forget that women have a 6th sense about things, and she will "know" that you've paid the provider. I've heard one too many stories about providers who have taken dates with previous, trusted clients who want to involve their partners, and their partners didn't know, and the partner just "knew" the provider wasn't just some random stranger approaching them at the bar for some fun. They've always ended badly for everyone involved.
The fantasy is hot. Not getting your friend's consent is beyond disgusting and speaks to the level of respect you actually have for this person.
my critics to feel any better, I had a local friend volunteer to take on this assignment. Volunteer owes me money (hmm possible gray area of turning an old friend into a sexworker by proxy.) Visiting friend doesn't wanna be left alone and the volunteer has known me for decades so not up for being naked in front of me. So reaching out here was the next best idea.
I'm trying to make sure I understand you correctly: a NON-provider lady friend volunteered to seduce your other lady friend as PAYMENT for money she owes you??
Yeah, the lady to be seduced would be soooooo happy to find out that another civvie was only willing to have sex with her for money. :eyeroll:
Could you please stop and try to put yourself in the shoes of the others involved in your proposed scenario?
Think of every possible outcome, including your lady friend whom you want seduced by another woman FINDING OUT that her new sex partner was PAID, and how that might make her feel. Please, try to see her POV before going forward with this
Because that is the epitome of lacking empathy. He obviously either cannot feel it or can feel it and doesn't care.
Forced labor? Gross. So coerced consent on one side and no consent at all on the other? I'm ready to throw my phone across the room
It is kind of sad some providers actually offered their services for this scenario to begin with.
I was wrong in my first post to you. It seemed at first like a nice idea but the others here are right. Please take their responses not as a criticism but as instruction.
Hobbyists and providers are in this with full knowledge and informed consent. Your friend also absolutely needs to know what she's getting into. Otherwise you're violating her rights and just asking for trouble. It's wrong and it has potentially terrible consequences. Emotional consequences for her certainly, but also possibly legal consequences for you. Do you really want this friend to hate you?
Just tell her you're totally up for this but the girl you know who can help out happens to be in the business. Ask her if you can pay for this experience.
If the deception is part of the turn-on for you then you need to understand it's an issue you must not act on. We all have issues. Don't do this. You'll have hurt your friend.
With you OR a provider, even if she does owe you money.
You misread something. The visitor owes me nothing.