It's so painfully obvious when a provider wants to misuse the hobby's code words to push their own agenda.  She is completely within her rights to provide whatever form of service she wants.  And she should absolutely demand cleanliness from clients.  But she is also clearly misusing the code words.  Like you said, she should just call herself a safe provider and leave it at that.  But that only happens when your intentions are not full of other baggage.