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Tickleit 323 Reviews 834 reads
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Variety is the spice of life, baby.

Rocker521448 reads

I had a funny experience tonight, but it got me thinking.  

I'm on a business trip and out to dinner with some guys tonight. At one point a scantly clad woman walks by the table and the conversation switches to "working girls"; that's where the fun begins:)

So for the next 20 minutes I'm listening to 5 guys, ages late 30's to late 40's, go on and on about how they would never pay for sex. How they would divorce their wives if they weighed too much, or if they didn't put out...you get the idea.

That got me wondering...Is it unusual for a hobbyist to have a good looking wife and a great sex life at home? I'm thinking it's not. And the money, in my mind, isn't so much for the sex but for the insurance that whoever I fuck won't show up at my house and screw up up great life.

But maybe I'm the 1 in 1,000, how would I know?

Would love to hear from both the hobbyists and providers

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SlimShady20021060 reads

and all they want is some variety from time to time. Some are stuck in a bad marriage and hobby all the time. Then some are divorced and would prefer not to date/marry. I am sure there are all sort of people who hobby.

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Jacque_Jenesais797 reads

You also pay it so you can walk away and sit at a table, saying "I'd never pay for sex." lol

When someone goes out of their way to say they'd never do a specific thing… guess what? lol.
 

Posted By: Rocker52
I had a funny experience tonight, but it got me thinking.  
   
And the money, in my mind, isn't so much for the sex but for the insurance that whoever I fuck won't show up at my house and screw up up great life.  
 

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RespectfullyYours660 reads

Courtney, he's simply paraphrasing an old Charlie Sheen line. When Charlie got caught up in the Heidi Fleiss fiasco he was honest about his taste for escorts, but insisted that he never paid for the sex, he paid so the escort would go home at the end of the night. Of course I never pay for sex either. I'm just a very generous and giving guy who out of the goodness of my heart donates money to complete strangers by placing it in an envelope in a very discrete location within their hotel room that is strangely so endearing and appreciated that the strangers voluntarily engage in carnal pleasures with me. What's real strange is that by the weirdest coincidence the strangers are always female, this has happened with the same exact woman on more than one occasion. What are the odds?

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WICardinalfan682 reads

Anyone who thinks they are not paying for sex while being married is an idiot.

Just try getting divorced and find out how much you have been paying!  Last count on my end close to $200K.

Just saying.

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RespectfullyYours776 reads

Quit your bitching! Look at all the money you're saving for Cardinal tickets because the birds don't have to pay Fat Albert $25,000,000 a year till he turns 65!

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WICardinalfan642 reads

Good one.....

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RespectfullyYours837 reads

Never more so when they beat the snot out of the north side blue shirts!!!!!!!!

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Jacque_Jenesais780 reads

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WICardinalfan755 reads

One word, Dowry......

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Arovet687 reads

Reminds me of a comedian I saw once, out of the blue (no pun intended) he asks the audience "isn't porn amazing?!"  Of course dead silence and he says "yeah they must lose a fortune producing that stuff!"

Awful lot of providers making a living from all the guys that would never pay for it...and I'll be one of them if the subject ever comes up.  I hate being a hypocrite, but I hate being jobless (and hobbyfundless) a whole lot more

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Jacque_Jenesais860 reads

honest to a fault.

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maybe44712761 reads

my wife would leave me. last sex of any kind with her was Feb. 14, 1994.

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liamdoherty844 reads

For sex.

Your buddies are like HS sophomores that deny ever having masturbated.   LIARS!!!!

Odds are they're going to see a provider after that dinner.

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I'm reading that you have a hot wife and a great sex lifestyle home.......does she join you in the hobby?

Posted By: Rocker52
I had a funny experience tonight, but it got me thinking.  
   
 I'm on a business trip and out to dinner with some guys tonight. At one point a scantly clad woman walks by the table and the conversation switches to "working girls"; that's where the fun begins:)  
   
 So for the next 20 minutes I'm listening to 5 guys, ages late 30's to late 40's, go on and on about how they would never pay for sex. How they would divorce their wives if they weighed too much, or if they didn't put out...you get the idea.  
   
 That got me wondering...Is it unusual for a hobbyist to have a good looking wife and a great sex life at home? I'm thinking it's not. And the money, in my mind, isn't so much for the sex but for the insurance that whoever I fuck won't show up at my house and screw up up great life.  
   
 But maybe I'm the 1 in 1,000, how would I know?  
   
 Would love to hear from both the hobbyists and providers.  
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
 

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RespectfullyYours675 reads

He never did say that he had a good looking wife and a great sex life Liam. It was posed more as a hypothetical. Your assumption may be right, and your other comments are dead-on. Of course, I myself have never masturbated..............

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Rocker52809 reads

The guys in question are not my friends. They are clients from 1,000 miles away.  

2. My wife actually is pretty hot if I do say so myself. However, I don't think the idea of joining me with a provider would go over well. But why would I even go there? The hobby is for ME!:

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RespectfullyYours835 reads

Well, then you're a lucky man. But I don't know that having a hot wife who is dynamite in bed necessarily stops someone from seeking new adventures: especially when they are so fortunate that they can afford to play with some of the beautiful women who participate in this endeavor. Just my opinion, with absolutely no empirical data to support it, but I think human beings are not especially predisposed to monogamy. I think we have had Puritan values drummed into our heads for such a long time (survivors of the parochial school system raise your hands), and made to think that sex was a function for procreation, and nothing else, that being monogamous was synonymous with being in the image of God, or Yahweh, or Jehovah, or Buddha, or Shiva, or whatever title you want to associate with a divine entity. Maybe it all started with the 10 Commandments and "thou shalt not covet thy neighbor's wife." Not really sure a lightening bolt from heaven inscribed that on a stone tablet. Seems just as likely to me some old, wealthy landowner/merchant thought that one up after finding his much younger, hottie wife messing around with one of the house slaves. you want to describe it. The point is, if done safely and discretely, with full, unequivocal consent by both individuals, sex is a pretty amazing experience. And when there are variations in the sexual dynamic, whether it be role-playing, change in locations, wardrobe fantasies, or dare I say it, different partners, the experience can be greatly enhanced.

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Rocker52668 reads

When i was younger if I dated someone with small tits then I wanted a girl with big tits. If my current was tall I wanted short. Blonde? I'm chasing brunettes...lol!

Some would say I'm never satisfied with what I have. I think I just want it all:)

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tinhobbyist724 reads

I am the same way.  I have a lovely wife, we have sex often, but I will always want other women to play with.  I may burn in hell for that but that's the way I am...

Posted By: Rocker52
When i was younger if I dated someone with small tits then I wanted a girl with big tits. If my current was tall I wanted short. Blonde? I'm chasing brunettes...lol!  
   
 Some would say I'm never satisfied with what I have. I think I just want it all:)

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WICardinalfan689 reads

From personal experience having a hot wife does not equal hot sex. I had a hot wife,  she went down on me once in 20 years, would not let me go down on her, and only preferred MISH.  

When menopause hit the shop closed for good.

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RespectfullyYours661 reads

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WICardinalfan775 reads

You have no idea....

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Milania2751 reads

1.  But, if you are happy at home, and happy with your hobby...then yes, consider yourself lucky indeed.  Comparison is the thief of joy, or so they say.  

2.  Your friends sound charming.  :S  

They wouldn't pay for sex?  Is that immoral or lowly, but divorcing your wife if she gets fat is the mark of a true gentleman?

Also, if that is how a guy feels about his wife, his home life is not ideal.  No woman is truly happy if she is with a guy who would leave her if she gained a few lbs.  The joke is on him bc the sex would be a lot better if mutual respect were present...as it is in a certain profession I happen to enjoy.  ;)

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Jacque_Jenesais761 reads

and after a few weeks starts telling you to hit the gym so you can get a better body?!

Talk about bait and switch! LOL

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Milania2802 reads

Wow.  Never had that happen, but if it did I can think of a few things from the GYM I'd like to hit HIM with!!!

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Tickleit835 reads

Variety is the spice of life, baby.

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Arovet833 reads

We also hobby because our wives won't fuck us, and they won't fuck us for the same reason we mostly don't stick with one provider...they're as tired and bored of fucking one person for years as we are.  OP says his wife is hot, yet here he is.  And we all pretend "foresaking all others" is perfectly reasonable and teach our kids these fairy tales is they can grow up and eventually be sick of their spouses as well.  And society ostracizes providers, but they're the only ones that have figured it out!

This world is somebody's big practical joke and one day I guess I'll find out who's.

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NDIB728 reads

But that is not the case so I love the hobby instead.

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