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Why Do Guys Pay So Much??
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Everyone is looking at money differently. I am the type of guy who carefully watches where my money goes.

To some, if it costs more means better. Well, not always the case. Those $1000/hr ladies seem like all you get is professionally done web sites and pictures (no disrespect here). Some like that and that is why they go for it.

I am all about the GFE and if she makes me believe, then that is a real winner for me.
Chicago has so many good looking ladies in the $300-$500/hr mark. Why go for $1000? I do not get it ether.

Posted By: MagnumChicago
I see girls visiting Chicago charging $600, $700, even $1000/hr.  Obviously they're getting it and I'm all for the free market..  

They seem very attractive and good at their job...  but I know some amazing, drop dead gorgeous, very skilled girls who live in Chicago and/or visit regularly that charge $400 or less.  So I don't get it.

So I'd like to hear from someone who pays this much.  Why?  Feel like you're getting something better if you're paying a grand??  Serious question.

Thanks neighbors

I see girls visiting Chicago charging $600, $700, even $1000/hr.  Obviously they're getting it and I'm all for the free market..  

They seem very attractive and good at their job...  but I know some amazing, drop dead gorgeous, very skilled girls who live in Chicago and/or visit regularly that charge $400 or less.  So I don't get it.

So I'd like to hear from someone who pays this much.  Why?  Feel like you're getting something better if you're paying a grand??  Serious question.

Thanks neighbors

Sultan.of.Brunei890 reads

Why do people eat kobe steak instead of hamburger? Why do people shop at Gucci instead of Payless Shoe Source? Why do people buy Porsche instead of Kia? Why do people buy penthouse suites instead of a trailer park home? Because they can.

Why worry about what others spend on providers. Stick to worrying about your own finances. If you can't pay the rate, don't be irate, masturbate. ;-)

Ok Sultan...  I'm looking for an honest discussion. Not a smart ass comment.

But to have a legitimate response - I'm not talking about spending more money for better looks or better performance.   Or to use your choice of analogy, Kobe steak.

If I buy a Kobe steak at Jewel for $100, why would I buy it at Dominicks for $150?  

My point isn't that we cannot afford it.  My point is that there are stunningly gorgeous, great providors charging $350-$400 - market rate.

So either you truly have no regard for the value of your money, or it turns you on to pay more, or potentially you just don't know any better - there's some reason.

I spend a lot of money on the hobby, and am very loyal to my repeat girls.  Im generous in other ways with them as well.   But on principle, I'm not giving a girl I dont know $1000 / hr.  The question is why do others?

Thanks

I can understand and agree to some degree your argument that the "sultan's"  analogies aren't exactly spot on, but I completely fail to understand how that makes his whole statement invalid.

LongShot_Louie's comment:

its really all what you make out of it...and that's in your head (the big one).
The mind is the largest erogenous organ we possess. The very statement of "because we can" indicates that the "sultan" and anyone else who employs a similar rational is very simply and naturally using this organ. If he feels the $150 Kobe beef melts on his tongue better than the $100, how on earth can anyone possibly dispute his very personal experience with that beef? Easily 85% of this lifestyle is about perception (fantasy, if you will, but it goes much further than this), and if you understand and accept this, then his point makes complete sense.

If you'd like to put it in hard economic jargon, since what you are really driving at here is the market, he gains greater utility from the higher end lady than the money he puts down. Utility, and where one identifies or gains it, is the sole driving factor for why a patron selects any companion, whether it be price, style of companionship, age, looks, etc. Asking someone to dissect something as personal as their "utility," will rarely result in the more detailed response that you seem to be seeking.

Posted By: Sultan.of.Brunei
Why do people eat kobe steak instead of hamburger? Why do people shop at Gucci instead of Payless Shoe Source? Why do people buy Porsche instead of Kia? Why do people buy penthouse suites instead of a trailer park home? Because they can.

Why worry about what others spend on providers. Stick to worrying about your own finances. If you can't pay the rate, don't be irate, masturbate. ;-)
You didnt answer the question.  There's a qualitative difference between kobe steak and hamburger, Gucci and Payless, Porsche and Kia...."paying it because you can" doesnt answer the underlying question, "Is there a qualitative difference between a $1000 provider and a $300 provider...or is it just a matter of... "There's one born every minute...and some of them have deeper pockets".  

I do agree worrying about what others spend is a bit silly...its really all what you make out of it...and that's in your head (the big one).

Thanks for understanding the question.

"Money was never a big motivation for me, except as a way to keep score. The real excitement is playing the game." - Donald Trump

smartassplayin744 reads

I would think at $1000/hr you would be dealing with a low volume lady.  I doubt she's gonna line up 4 guys in 5 hrs before you see her.  Some guys will pay alot for that perception.  Truth is you never really know what a provider has been up to before you see her and never will.

I can't answer.  The most I've paid is 400, for a lady who gets 9's, deserves them, and seems to be very low volume.  What about hearing from those who have paid significantly more?  Any observations? I suspect a lot of us are curious.

PeterPickle1630 reads


Why do guys do it? Because they think they are getting something that is 2x, 3x, better than a $300/hr girl.

I can afford to patronize the high dollar hotties if I chose to but I learned a long time ago that it's a borderline scam.  If you hobby regularly & long enough you'll figure out that it's just not true and 90% of the time all you are getting is a better web site.   IMO - I think a lot (not all) of guys who pay that much are infrequent hobbyists that splurge when they do hobby.  Maybe I'm wrong...just my hunch.

As the old adage goes...."a fool and his gold are soon parted"....

Is as good as my $600 provider., maybe I think what you believe is a beauty at $300/$400 is a skank! It is a matter of personal likes and dislikes. I see reviews for girls at $300 and they are 80 lbs overweight, but the hobbyist gives them a solid 9 for looks and says in the details that playing with her fat rolls were the best sex ever and now the porker is his ATF!!!. I quickly move on to the next review and don't care, as long as the dude is happy. I know what I like, I know what makes me happy and I know my budget!!

For porn stars, there is a certain element of fantasy of being with someone you've seen in movies before and, for some, bragging about it later.  (I would seriously consider seeing some of my favorites if they came to town.)  Otherwise, ladies who charge higher rates tend to advertise themselves as arm candy for going to restaurants or social functions and are capable of doing that along with fucking afterward.  Of course, according to many of their websites, they tend to be "upscale" and "educated" as well and use GRE words unnecessarily along with themes like diamonds and VIP.  Let's not kid ourselves here, the sex-for-cash industry these days is all about image and projecting what you want to be to customers.  The image is enough for some to think they can charge whatever and there will always be a sucker ready to pay up.

The sex is generally the same all around but the overall experience is enough to pay a premium.  Ironically, the best experience I had with a provider charged 75 euros (about 110 dollars) and blew away my perception of higher rates equating to something better.  

Posted By: MagnumChicago
I see girls visiting Chicago charging $600, $700, even $1000/hr.  Obviously they're getting it and I'm all for the free market..  

They seem very attractive and good at their job...  but I know some amazing, drop dead gorgeous, very skilled girls who live in Chicago and/or visit regularly that charge $400 or less.  So I don't get it.

So I'd like to hear from someone who pays this much.  Why?  Feel like you're getting something better if you're paying a grand??  Serious question.

Thanks neighbors

CommanderMcBragg2678 reads

......then you'll never understand.  I've done both ends of the spectrum and everything in between.  Started in the stratosphere price range doing the PSE and ended up exploring local options of all price ranges.  I've had $3,000 + evenings that were worth every cent and $250 locals that were a complete rip off.  Guess what? It isn't about the $. Some women have it & some women don't. If all you want are a nice pair of tits & a matching set of skills then by all means, it IS or certainly can be all about the $. But if you're looking for something more, then it truly becomes a matter of personal taste. I want what I want and I like what I like. Doesn't really matter whether it $300 or $700.  JMHO

Sometimes a girl catches your eye that you just have to see. She's higher-priced but there's something about her you can't resist. So you splurge. Maybe she's no better than half her price in reality but in your opinion she was worth it. It's all about perception. Maybe you do it once or twice and you're satisfied. Maybe you're rich and price isn't important.

It's not just visitors charging unusually high donations, we have locals doing the same. Why do guys see local ladies who charge that much? Because they want to.

Everyone is looking at money differently. I am the type of guy who carefully watches where my money goes.

To some, if it costs more means better. Well, not always the case. Those $1000/hr ladies seem like all you get is professionally done web sites and pictures (no disrespect here). Some like that and that is why they go for it.

I am all about the GFE and if she makes me believe, then that is a real winner for me.
Chicago has so many good looking ladies in the $300-$500/hr mark. Why go for $1000? I do not get it ether.

Posted By: MagnumChicago
I see girls visiting Chicago charging $600, $700, even $1000/hr.  Obviously they're getting it and I'm all for the free market..  

They seem very attractive and good at their job...  but I know some amazing, drop dead gorgeous, very skilled girls who live in Chicago and/or visit regularly that charge $400 or less.  So I don't get it.

So I'd like to hear from someone who pays this much.  Why?  Feel like you're getting something better if you're paying a grand??  Serious question.

Thanks neighbors

You can draw that line anywhere, just pick a number and say that is "so much." Why pay $200, when you can pay $100, or $400 when you can pay $300, or $600, when you can pay $400, or... It never ends.

So, Magnum, why do you pay twice as much as you could pay? Why not only do half hours at an AMP?

Really, there is no "reason" to pay more, pay less, or pay anything. How do you choose a lady? Why do you choose a lady? The reasons are the same at any price point, and the Sultan's answer - because he can - is true, not a joke.

I assume we all start with some sort of budget, whether it is what we can afford, what we want to pay, what we can sneak past the SO, or whatever. Then we look at the universe of ladies that fit our budget and choose one who turns us on. Or maybe it goes the opposite way, as one poster mentioned here, and we see a lady who looks very good and then try to figure out (if it is a stretch for the budget) how we find the money to pay for her time.

Guys pay a lot because they can and the lady looks good to them, the first time, and then they come back because they had a good time. That is exactly the same as at any price point. The actual number of dollars, and what those dollars mean to each of us, are just as subjective as the pleasure the lady gives them. A lot of money to me may be nothing at all to you, or the opposite.

Next question - oh, wait, I know that one, it will be "is a $600 lady definitely better than a $300 lady (or fill in whatever dollar amounts you want)?". That one is easier - there is no general answer, and if you want to compare two specific ladies, no one else can tell you what the value of each will be for you - go sample, consider and post your reviews so we can know what you think.

There are general differences between experiences offered by providers at different price points, but they are only general. Exceptions are the rule. Ladies get more money because they want to, figure out how to, and are prepared to do what they have to do in order to get that money. And because they can, by which I mean that they possess certain skills and attributes that make this possible, not because some sucker will pay them.

This reminds me of a little fact I love, and it relates a little to this. Over the years there have been a lot of surveys taken, asking people to define what it means to be rich. The results have been consistent, both over the years and for people with every amount of assets from $500 to $5 billion - no one ever believes they are rich, and they always define being rich as having twice as much money as they have. My guess is that the real question here is - why pay to see expensive providers, and the real answer, no matter how much you spend, is that no one pays to see expensive providers, we all pay a fair price to see wonderful providers.

But I am guessing that is not the answer you want. The answer you want is that people pay so much more than you do because they are idiots who do not understand the ultimate wisdom of your approach to the hobby, or maybe you want to be told that if you spend the money on one of these premium providers you will have a life changing experience that will turn you away from BP girls forever. Either or both may be true, but only you can say.

Me, like everyone else, I never pay "so much."

Zig

So far the only two legit responses I've heard are:

1) Shes a well known porn star. Understandable. Id pay anything to bang Faith Hill...

2) Its someone you just have to have.  

Fair enough.  We all pay for what we want, and no one forces anyone.  

This week however, I've got $400 for someone I'm looking to meet, and I know I'm going to have a great time based on photos and reviews...  and Ill still have another 4 left over to see her again in two days!  :)

Radcow818 reads

People do stupid things because they have money, but that doesn't make someone prefer one provider over another. I know a multimillionaire who won't pay more than $300. I also know a few guys that only go after $1000 so called courtesans. To each his own and because lots of guys throw around their money it might be because they "feel" better about doing so. Humans are flawed. Because most all of us go outside ourselves looking to fill our wholes, we make choices. Same for the ladies that choose to live this life. We can't judge. It only makes sense to the person doing it. Its great that you choose not to and know your reasons, but to condemn the other for foolishly throwing money at someone because they think the pussy is somehow better, different will only get you the grief you've experienced thus far. Let them do it and live within your principles not to.

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