to entertain another female, whether she is alone or part of a couple? I enjoyed time with other coeds while in college -- graduated this spring -- but now with my career starting my career, yeah, lucky to have gotten a job, have the urge again.

references are required by most.  
That would mean references for both the male and female..... so your best bet is for both of you to become remembers of roomservice2000.com.  

I demand also to talk directly to the female because in some cases the female is pushed into the situation hence causing a fight to happen during the appointment.  

This is not a good situation and I have been there.  

Please take the advice wisely  
JC