Are you sure she has a TER VIP membership? I think you have to in order to whitelist. If you see her again, maybe ask her in person... Good luck!

Since you didn't post under an alias, and you only have one review, should one assume that this provider that you reviewed is the one in question? If so, it looks like she doesn't whitelist anyone.

Now if you were singled out and part of a sub-group that didn't get whitelisted, but others had been, then you should move on to someone else permanently. I have done that myself in similar situations. Lots of fish in the ocean.

If she's not a VIP member she can't whitelist you. That may be the problem. Also, did you review her? I usually (with a few exceptions) only whitelist gents that have reviewed me. I feel if they give the effort so should I. If they don't... Well...

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Thanks for all your insight, especially Veronica. I left her a glowing review because my time with her was perfect. I am guessing that perhaps she is not a VIP member...

I welcome all your insights to continue...I'm the perfect client and just want some flexibility with providers. It's fine that I need to provide references but if the one I've seen, very successfully seen, does not ok me, it makes it tough...like I have to start all over again...any providers want to help me start? Lol

Thanks all

If you are referring to Ayden Ashley, her first review was in Jan. of this year, so she only has a 4 month review history.  That tells me she is new to TER (and possibly providing).  She has not whitelisted any of the 12 other guys who have reviewed her, so I wouldn't take it personal.  Chances are she is not a member of TER and may not even be familiar with TER, and so has no idea what you're asking for.  Next time you see her discuss it with her in person and then you'll know exactly why she isn't responding to your request and what her reasons are.