So, I realize that I will probably get a lot of flack asking this question, and about why I was not aware of a previous thread about this same issue, but nevertheless, here I go:

How does a hobbyist get white list referrals?  Do I ask for them?  At the time of the appointment? Or ask later?  Does this need to originate with the provider?

I have been hobbying now for over a year and a half and have made many great connections and have had numerous favorites I have seen for many, many sessions yet it never came up.  In fact I never even thought about it until recently.

Can anyone shed some light on this or provide link to a previous thread.  Many thanks.

http://www.theeroticreview.com/info_policies/whiteListFAQ.asp

I the provider had a nice experience with you she may give you a whitelist referral, it is completely up to the provider, you can ask her after the session is over

yep this is how I am asked too. Usually after session

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if the lady enjoyed you and your session..they will be more than happy to give you a whitelist..it never hurts to ask..most times you dont even have to..

I believe that many TER ladies don't use, or don't know about,  the "White List" and therefore don't regularly leave referrals.  In my experience it has worked well to follow up in a week or so after your review is posted and politely request a White List if you think it is appropriate and you haven't seen one.

I have had a couple of ladies tell me they don't use the White List so no luck there.  I guess there is also a potential issue that they may not White List you if they are not happy with your review.  That's life.  

With 111 reviews I would think I would have more White Lists.  I tell myself I haven't really focused on it.  However, maybe there is something wrong with me.  Bummer.  Now I'm second quessing myself.  Just kidding.

A further note.  Since I tend to avoid giving out my TER handle prior to a meeting, it makes using the White List as a reference difficult.  That is part of the reason I haven't really focused on it too much.  There have been other threads on this issue (providing your TER handle) and I continue to be most comfortable with not doing so in most circumstances.  Just my approach.

Sorry to be so chatty today.

bbTna

Have to have more to go on then a single visit.  Many ladies only whitelist regulars becasue they can vouch that they are ok on a regular basis.  I need to have met with a guest more then 1 time to furnish a white list or any other verification aside from the norm reference system.  My way of justifying this is that when I give my OK on a web site I have to be willing to say he is nice normal and always like that.  In order to know a gent is not just on his best behavior on the single visit with me to get the white list I do require at least 2 so that I can more accurately say ok in a white listing.  

I have to say though I do not use white listing for my own verifications unless I personally know the lady who provided them as well as those personally known references been given in the last year.  I trust speaking/emailing directly with a lady more then just taking the word of a white list/P411 ok/Date-check ok so most times I will go ahead and check with the ladies to make sure he is fine and his info matches up.  There are other things too but they are a trade secret, it is best to know who you are laying down with...  It keeps each and everyone of us safe and without issues.

Licks, Sage