A highly reviewed provider who is visiting just cancelled an appointment due to having a bleeding issue,if you know what I mean.This is twice in a row she has cancelled on me.I am not sure what happened.The one time we met it went very well.Fellas what do you think?

Make sure you do it in 14 days when she's ovulating and horny.  

All jokes aside - Mother nature happens. I've got my menstrual cycle marked down on my calendar and I try my best to let my clients know about those days before they book.

Nonetheless, I've had an instance where aunt flo showed up hella early (a week early) and I was embarrased as hell as my guy had flown me out of the state for the weekend. Thank God, he wasn't afraid of getting his #RedWings.  

Nonetheless, there are tons of options in Chicago if your provider has to cancel due to aunt flo. Also, you could always see a lady who is 40 or older where that kind of thing isnt an issue anymore.  

 

Sweetest Regards,
Adrienne Baptiste  

 

 

 

 

It's very annoying, but it's part of being a woman.

I wouldn't take it personally.

Mother Nature can be very fickle at times..

I wouldn't take it personal. Even as a massage provider I don't feel like working at that time of the month. My energy is low every so often in the day you get random pain and I don't want my service to be compromised. some women don't have regular cycles, it can be a few days off so not as easy to predict what days you will need off.

and if a lady is like me, the cycle changes as you get older.  Mine will come every 3-9wks and there is no way to predict when it will show up just whenever it feels like it.  Stress can make it come early or late as well as age.  Also some women have extreme cramping that even the strongest OTC pain killers can't touch.  

There are 2 ways for this OP to continue.  Either ask her if she would like to see you again or if it happens again take it as 3rd time is a charm.  Most ladies will just make excuses rather then tell a gentleman she would not like to see him again for fear of retaliation of some sort(usually a bad review).  Even if that is the case, don't take it personally.  While you may think she is amazing there might have been something that just didn't gel for her, if she is busy enough she may decline because of that.  It is not necessarily that you are smelly/rough or the like.  However it may just be that she has her flow and prefers not to bring others into that...  You never know.

Keep your head up, follow your gut and if you have to chase that tail to pay it make sure it will be worth the chase...  Take care, Sage

BTW Adrienne, most ladies have their monthly well into their 50's with menopause only starting in the 50's.  There have been women having babies into their late 40's and even in other cultures into their 60's.  If you are looking forward to a reprieve, you have a long time to wait GF.  Take care...

It's amusing that he's asking the "Fellas".  I have zero experience having a period so I'm gonna take the ladies word for it.

The problem I think is that its an excuse not to see me.I met her in January and she was great.She cancelled on me for tonight and in April.Its frustrating because I cleared out my who schduele so we can meet.

But I'll be dam sure never beg to pay for sex. Time to move on.  

END OF MESSAGE

That's is something we (females) have no control over!!!  Blame it on mother vagina!!! I get soooooooooo fucking horny when my vag is bleeding I wish there were hobbyists who love fucking the blood out of me.., it's proven that sex helps to quicken the "period" period!!!  

That said.... Please be nice to us when we're bleeding lol

I know it sucks, but I do have a couple questions you may want to ask, but am not accusing you of these things. I just know some reasons why girls move on

Have your demands changed or risen?
Are you grandfathered into an old rate or time minimum, but haven't offered the new fee?
Have you said anything negative toward her body or performance, especially in a review? (You're welcome to do that, but some most likely won't want to see a guy again if that's the case)
Have you said anything negative about other ladies in the industry to her? (Possibly her friends?)
Did you book her time minimum? (Nothing wrong, but if she gets a dinner date - you know - shit happens)
Have you expressed a possible fantasy to try with her, she agreed it would be awesome, but then she may have second guessed and is trying to avoid?
Have you spoken of anything sexual content related in an email, as you were more comfortable since you met her? Ladies do cut that off, just in case the guy got caught and turned to the dark side...

 
There can be many reasons. But I've also had a couple of clients who's schedules were always open the exact day my heaviest point in my rag happened. So it does happen. Thankfully I can usually dodge those occurrences, as there are only two days it's heavy.

I cancelled a guy who booked a 1 hour two months in advance. It just hit hard, and I didn't want to tell him why I was really cancelling, so I just said I was having a panic attack. LOL. I lied, probably not the best lie, lol!

I've also cancelled because of my "period" because I had the shits.

I don't care if I'm bloated, and I'll eat salt galore before a date. Take it or leave it. But some ladies really want that image, and if she feels bloated, she may not want guys to see her bloated.

When I'm bloated, usually the day before and during my two heaviest days, it just sucks and hurts.

Go back to the last appointment she scheduled, and see if it falls around the same time of the month.

That should help. I swear, I feel some guys book around my period, even a month in advance. It's almost like they can sense it from miles away. lol! It is really weird. Even as it changes, there are certain guys who just happen to fall on those days, and it sucks! lol!

Thankfully it's been a while since that has been happening. Phew!

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would love to make that wish a reality

You're my hero!!!! Come on down!!! 😉😉😉