Write Review
2,076,885 Total Reviews 3,700 New Reviews
13,098 Users Online

Chicago

A Question to the Ladies
jblinguist 25 Reviews 799 reads
posted

Ladies, first off - LOVE YOU ALL!  YOU ARE SWEETHEARTS!

My question is, I am older and happen to no longer be in the shape I once was when younger.  Do you prefer that I make a point of bringing this up before our date.  I usually say something like (no Brad Pitt here, more like a sitcom Teddy Bear).

Just curious if it matters ahead of time or if you prefer the advance notice.

Sinful1739 reads

is that you are a nice guy.   Besides, most girls had teddy bears that they loved!!!

ReplyQuoteReport
tiacarter775 reads

Posted By: jblinguist
Ladies, first off - LOVE YOU ALL!  YOU ARE SWEETHEARTS!

My question is, I am older and happen to no longer be in the shape I once was when younger.  Do you prefer that I make a point of bringing this up before our date.  I usually say something like (no Brad Pitt here, more like a sitcom Teddy Bear).

Just curious if it matters ahead of time or if you prefer the advance notice.
Yeah what she said and also as long as you are respectable and a gentleman thats all that matters.

ReplyQuoteReport
Eloisa644 reads

It's true: a respectful gentleman is not only more desirable to me as a person but additionally much more attractive to me as a lover!  No announcement needed for any other variables thereof, but of course, do whatever you are comfortable with thus.

ReplyQuoteReport
giselle69527 reads

(and you know who you are) are the kind that you can kiss and hug, get nasty and then cuddle up and snuggle with the teddy bear;)  If I were you I wouldn't give it a second thought - just be your sweet, gentle self and throw in some naughty bear moves!!!!

XXX-Giselle

ReplyQuoteReport
Jordan_Carter510 reads

If its an issue to them, they will ask. I love teddy bears just as much as my ken dolls :)

ReplyQuoteReport
Elisabeth389 reads

If you have a medical condition that if you answer the door will be frightening, then yes ... please tell us!  But if you're just a little older and maybe a little heavier, that's just not an issue at all.  It's also good to remember that chemistry plays SO much in the equation with regard to attraction.

Plus, well men are visual creatures.  Women?  Not so much.  So that is also something that makes a lot of difference.  Sweet question, though!!!

Hugs,
Elisabeth

ReplyQuoteReport
Post Reply Back To Forum
Register Now!